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Hi Kat,
If you check my profile, you will see that I too have suffered from severe clinical depression for years. I know that my Dr's were concerned that I would have negative depressive episodes associated with my WLS, but I didn't find that to be the case at all. That's not to say that I don't still struggle, but my WLS journey has not negatively impacted me at all and I would say that in some ways it has helped.
I might suggest that you find some things to do now that you can take forward with you later. I don't know if you have interest things like scrapbooking... It's a great way to document and journal your journey. It's something you can do now, but carry forward as you take your walking tour of europe.
Wishing you all the best and continued success,
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
Hi Dona,
I'm delighted that you decided to share this... It's so important for us to recognize how much we have eaten just out of habit. Not only that, but for you to substitute something that could undermine your success with something that will support it is powerful. You're on your way to hitting a home run my friend. Keep up the good work.
By the way, I think it's great that you have so much support from your friends and family.
Wishing you continue success,
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
You are doing fabulously and I need to take a page from your playbook.
Wishing you continue success.
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
I think that it can be hard when we want others to notice and appreciate the work that we've gone to... no matter what the endeavor, but especially when it's something so personal. It's amazing, but I remember when I lost my first 40 lbs or so and people thought I'd cut my hair. Cut my hair! Now, if I lose or gain a few pounds, it's pretty noticeable. One difference, I guess, is the difference in the overall percentage of loss or gain now.
I think the fact that you took a step back and looked at all of what you have done for yourself is where the real kudos come. You have done a great deal for yourself and you appreciate it. In time, your friends may or may not recognize the differrences in your physical appearance, but you will... and you will really see it in the ways it impacts your health and quality of life.
Keep up the good work!
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
Yes, I deserve credit and I should pat myself on the back. I went to the pool and swam my laps and did exercise every day. I continue to journal all of my food. I tried a new recipe this week. I took my vitamins every day. Life is good. I'm doing well. I am happy.
Thank you for reminding me.
For me this was an event worth celebrating. I was very proud of myself. Ishared the experience with my colleagues the next mroning and they all clapped and gave me big hugs.
Dona Lerner
Since I'm logging my food, I went back to an old WW trick that always worked for me when I was counting points. I go ahead and log everything I plan on eating for the day. That way I can see if I need to tweak things just a bit. I realized that I wa****ting the carbs pretty heavy so I've changed my afternoon snack back to a CLICK espresso drink for my ride home. Keeps me from snacking/grazing/munching while I cook dinner.
So I deserve credit for taking control and making wiser decisions.
Thanks for posting this topic - YOU - my friend - Are the Greatest!!!!
- Iris
Blessed are the flexible for they shall not be bent out of shape.
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Hi Brenda,
Kudos!! Making the lifestyle change to become more active will make you much more likely to maximize your weight loss and better yet your longterm ability to keep that weight off.
Wishing you continued success,
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
Hi Annie,
It's great to see you here! I'm delighted that you are now able to recognize that you DESERVE the compliments that you get. Congratulations on recording your intake and fitness. I think that being accountable to ourselves is a huge factor in our longterm success. I know that I always to better when I am accountable to me.
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145