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OBESITY_IS_MEE
on 8/2/10 4:19 pm - STATEN ISLAND, NY
RNY on 09/09/09 with
Topic: HELP!!!!
WHEN I FIRST HAD THE SURGERY, I WAS MOTIVATED AND DETERMINED AND HAD WILL-POWER TO REACH MY GOAL.. BUT SOMEWHERE ALONG THE WAY I LOST MY MOTIVATION, DETERMINATION AND WILL-POWER.. AND I STARTED EATING AND DRINKING THE WRONG THINGS THAT IM NOT SUPPOSED TO BE EATTING OR DRINKING.. IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME? IS THERE ANYWAY I CAN GET IT ALL BACK? IF SO, HOW CAN I DO JUST THAT? CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME..

      

WE ARE FIGHTERS AND FIGHTERS WIN!!

        
Marcy Coyne
on 8/2/10 4:12 pm - Novi, MI
RNY on 08/25/10 with
Topic: RE: Where are you now?
Surgery Status? not yet
Surgery Type? RNY
Surgery Date? Aug 25th

WeightHighest: 255
Current: 246.6
Goal: 115 


Starting Sizes:
Pant: 26-28
Shirts: xxl
Shoes: 6.5

Current Sizes:
Pants:
Shirts:
Shoes:

How do you feel? Excited and nervous about surger

Any WOW moments? Cant wait to have them

Do you have any concerns? Just being healthy and being able to walk down the street with out a wheelchair

grammamarcy

                        
Barbara C.
on 8/2/10 1:22 pm - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: Where are you now?

Hi Kristen,

Wow! I could have seen you recently... I was in San Jose all summer... until last week. 

I know that it must be frustrating, but remember that you have already started your journey. Keep up the good work and let us know when you finally get that surgery date scheduled. 

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Barbara C.
on 8/2/10 1:19 pm - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: Where are you now?

Bev,

You are making phenomenal progress. As you say, I think it is normal to worry about getting to goal and then not regaining. I think we have all lost before, but we have always regained in the past. I actually regained last year, but this time I was able to take off the regain relatively easily by just following the rules. I don't say this to scare you, but rather to reassure you that even if you falter, I think you will be able to manage it this time. 

Wishing you continued success!

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

(deactivated member)
on 8/2/10 9:26 am - Greely, Canada
Topic: RE: Where are you now?
Hi Barbara;

Thank you for the reply.  Actually my older sister has been amazing she went showing and purchased a hand mixer, all the "mini" pans and pots that I'd require for after the surgery...of course weeks later.  My second oldest sister purchased the little appetizer plates for me and a really nice glass for me so I can drink my water.  My sister's are terrific.  My friend (Margaret) that I have known for close to 10yrs will be taking me to the hospital and then picking me up again when it's time to come home.  She then will be staying with me for the first 48 hours.
I do and will not tell my mom about this surgery.  My mom and I have never gotten along and she is
very controlling.  When I was six months pregnant she complainted to me that I was gaining weight....aren't you suppose too...go figure.  Anyway I don't need the negatlivity from her in my life at this stage.
My roommate soon to be moving...which I can't wait is really not supportive, which hurts considering
who she is. I'm recently separated withing the last 7 months and he tells my friend, Margaret the he supportive but doesn't show it to me. 
Anyways, thank you so much for the reply letter and it's just that I have to slow down and breath and everything will be fine I'm sure.

Cheers
Donna 
bevvvv224
on 8/2/10 9:23 am - Peru, NY
Topic: RE: Where are you now?

Surgery Status? Surgery Complete
Surgery Type? RNY
Surgery Date? 1/6/09

Weight

Highest: 350
Current: 208
Goal:180

Starting Sizes:
Pant:30/32 (tight!)
Shirts:30/32 (tight!)
Shoes:9 1/2 - 10 WW

Current Sizes:
Pants: 14/16
Shirts: XL
Shoes: 8 1/2 W

How do you feel? ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL!!!

Any WOW moments? Too many to count!

Do you have any concerns? Always worry about getting to goal and not regaining. Think that is normal. Keeping it real.

          
kdizzle
on 8/2/10 7:08 am - Concord, CA
Topic: RE: Where are you now?


Surgery Status?
Almost have my date, psych eval on April 3, 2010
Surgery Type?
RNY
Surgery Date?
In september
Weigh
184.5

Highest:207
Current:184
Goal:
110


Starting Sizes:
Pant: 18
Shirts:2x
Shoes:6 wide

Current Sizes:16
Pants:16
Shirts:1x-2x
Shoes:6 wide

How do you feel? I feel good , frustrated with stalls in the pre op stage. I have read my Kaiser bariatric binder at lesat 4 times front to back! I am off work and want this done as soon as possible... but that is not how it works. I am almost there... psych eval tomorrow. I have 4 more pounds to loose then I will get a date.

Any WOW moments? not yet

Do you have any concerns?



 Kristen Hunter
"Sierra and Echo"  springer spaniels    
      

                        
LadySteeler
on 8/2/10 7:00 am - Clayton, NC
Topic: RE: Where are you now?
You are very kind... My goddaughter (who is 4) saw a recent picture of me and asked her mommy... so, is Auntie Lisa like, a little girl now???  My friend told me that I looked 12 in the last picture, so if the baby thinks it too... it must be gospel!
                    
Barbara C.
on 8/2/10 6:46 am - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: Where are you now?

Hi Kia,

It looks like you are already going great guns!

Keep it up... and be sure to let us know how you are doing. 

 

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Barbara C.
on 8/2/10 6:44 am - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: Where are you now?

Cheryl,

Your stats are so close to my own and it looks like you are moving ahead really well. I'll bet you'll end up in the Misses department in no time!

Keep up the good work.

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

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