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Dear Trouble,
I'm sorry to be so late in responding to you. We have had a family emergency, so I haven't been online much lately.
There are different sized bands and so they can have different fill maximums. Also, many surgeons do not take them to the maximum. Please check with your surgeon to find out what size band they used and if you have any fill room left.
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
I am 50 years old and married to a very supportive, loving husband. We have 5 children,(Shasta 21, Jeremy 20, Angela & Shelby 18 yr old twin girls, and Jacob 12.
I started thinking about having the RNY since march 2010 and followed through with all the stuff my insurance required. I am 5'1" and weighed 229 on the day before my surgery. My RNY was Oct 13, 2010 and I have lost 25 lbs in 5 weeks. I have a long way to go, but it is a journey that will get me to a healthier place in my life.
God bless everyone and it is nice to be here!!
As you know, I am really struggling with many stressors right now, but I have found that taking time to remember the things for which I'm grateful helps to keep me focused on doing the things I need to do to take care of myself. With that in mind, I'd like to share a few things for which I'm grateful:
* My improved health which is helping me make it through these tough times
* The fact that I'm not gaining a ton of weight during these stressful time
* The support of friends, family and acquaintances
* The companionship of my sweet, loving puppies that only ask to be loved in return
* The roof over my head and food in the pantry today
* The beauty of the season. I just love the vibrant colors as the leaves change
If you have things for which you are grateful, I'd love to have you share them. It seems that when I read others gratitude lists, it helps trigger even more things for me to add to my own list and as I am grateful, my burden is eased.Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
My RNY surgery is scheduled for 3 days from now on 11/16/10. I have been overweight most all of my life. I was able to loose weight with various diets when I was younger but as I get older I find it harder and harder. My knees are both in need of replacement but my orthopedic surgeon won't do surgery unless I lose at least 100 lbs. he is the one that has really encouraged me to look into bariatric surgery.
My highest weight is 398lbs. I weighed in 11/4/10 at 371. I can tell I have lost some on the 2 week liquid diet. I am looking forward to becoming mobile again. I am a bit nervous about the surgery but mostly just ready to get it behind me. My toughest hurdle to get over was admitting I could not lose the weight on my own and just because I have surgery doesn't mean that I am a failure. There is a lot of negative statements made about bariatric surgery and have talked to many people that think that only lazy people that don't want to help themselves do it as an easy way out. So far nothing has been easy about preparing for surgery and it doesn't sound like it will be easy afterward either. But I believe it will definately be worth the struggle to finally have control of my life back.
My mother passed away from complications of diabetes, I have sleep apnea, artheritis, high blood pressure and neuropathy. I look forward to living a longer healthier life as a smaller person.
I have not had surgery yet, I have my first consultation next week on the 18 so I'm praying everything works out so I get to have my surgery soon.
I have not been big my whole life, just only the last 12 years or so. I had my oldest son and life happened (I by no means am blaming motherhood on my weight gain) I had the baby blues really bad. On top of having the baby blues, I was dealing with a major loss in my life. My oldest son is a twin, however I lost his twin about 4 months into my pregnancy and carried the deceased baby until I had him 6 weeks premature. I didn't get to grieve the loss of the unborn baby until after I had Austin. I still grieve to this day. Then 3 years after I had Austin, my son Dalton made his arrival. Again I had trouble with that pregnancy as well and the baby blues were horrible.
I have been taking depression and anxiety meds since the age of 14 and I still do. The meds are the reason for most of my weight gain and I am also an emotional eater. My biggest weight thus far has been about 315lbs. Currently I am at 288lbs, haven't been below 280 in almost 4 years. My goal weight is 135. I am at very high risk of being a diabetic (it runs in my family on both parents side extremely bad) as does high blood pressure, cholesterol, heart disease and obesity.
I just want to be happy and healthy again. I want to be able to do more with my kids without being out of breath, and tiring out so easily. I want more out of life and more for my kids. So please wish me luck and send up some prayers for me. Thank you and God Bless!!!!
For instance, my favorite Thanksgiving dish is cornbread dressing... no protein in that! So the week before, I will be diligent about no empty carbs (i.e. all carbs will come from fruit and beans, and whole grains; no white flour or sugar). I will also be vigilant in my exercise. I generally do these things anyway, but I will LOG it daily when I am paying particular attention. The last thing is I will be sure to make all my protein goals for the week. Then on Thanksgiving day, do what we always do... eat my protein first! Then I can have a few bites of that yummy dressing!
Also, I limit my eating away from my kitchen to 2-3x a month. The sodium can reek havoc even if you make WLS friendly choices!
Thanks! Generally, I can't eat enough to keep stuff in the fridge without having to deal with spoilage and more than that, I tend to think twice about it if I'm going to thaw something out and have it versus, just popping it in my mouth ;-)
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145