Mourning my husbands shooting death...

My wonderful husband was robbed and murdered on March 19th.  He was shot twice in own backyard in the middle of the day. I miss him so much it hurts and am suffering deep depression.  This has been the worst and toughest thing that has ever happened to me and my family.  On April 27th, we would have celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary.  We have 2 kids, Anthony, 13 and Priscilla, 8.  Needless to say, this has affected my diet and vitamin intake since it happened.  I can barely eat anything and know this can't be good for me.  I'm asking for everyone in this forum to please keep us in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.  He will NEVER be forgotten!   In loving memory of Robert Lopez 11/11/69 - 3/19/09

You are in my prayers.  Please take care of yourself and let us know from time to time how things are going with you.

I am so very, very sorry to hear about the death of your husband!  You don't know me, but I wanted t share with you that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!

I am so sorry about your loss.  You and your family will be in my prayers.  Please take care of yourself.  

Vickie

(((((Sweetheart)))))),

Oh my goodness! Words cannot truly convey the deep sympathy I have for you, your family and the tragic loss you are all suffering.

Of course, you are all in our thoughts and prayers as you make your way through these dark hours, days and weeks ahead. I'm sure it doesn't seem so now, but the sun will shine again as G-d shines his countenance upon you and your family.

I know how hard it can be to take care of yourself at a time like this, but please be sure to eat WELL and regularly. Take your supplements and be sure to get out of the house everyday. It's really important. If you continue to suffer depression, please seek and obtain medical support. You may need some therapy to deal with the intense and overwhelming pain you are experiencing as you work to keep your head above water and to care for your lovely children. I'm sure that you will see your dear Robert in their smiles, laughter, movements and gestures inthe coming days, weeks, and months... He will live on through them and in your loving hearts and memories.

Wishing you the peace the memories and time will provide.

My heart is breaking for you and your children. Of course everything suffers when you are slapped in the face with a tragedy like this. Please force yourself to eat something, anything. You are going to have to keep your strength up, especially for the kids. I will keep you and your children in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself. Rest in Peace Robert Lopez.   Leslie :(

I am truly sorry that this happened to your husband. I think back and thats my oldest sons Birthday. We had a great day and now I see this and know that while we had a good time someone had a horrible event take place. My heart is heavy for you and your children. I wish I could do something to help you and your family... I live in MD but want you to know that we are all here for you. You must take care of yourself as I am sure thats what your hubby would want. You also need to hug your kids and hold them tight. I mean as tight as you can... If needed get them into therapy...It will save them now and way down the road... If you need to talk just PM me I am here for you...



Group Hug to you and your family... Pray to God and ask for help he wont let you down. Ask him to send Angels to surround your home and family. I am sending you a couple to start...    May your husband Robert Lopez rest in peace in the arms of the Angels and God above... God Bless you and your family....


                                            Love and care,

                                                             Julie

I am so sorry.  You and your children will be in my thoughts and prayers.  Please take care of yourself.

Ellen

I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with your family. Please take care of yourself.

I am so sorry for the untimely departure of your beloved husband - please accept my sympathies and my thoughts.  I will light a candle for his journey.  We surround you with peace and love.  Please take care of yourself, especially for your children.  They need you more than ever now, and I'll bet you find that you need them just as much.