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Well they called today and gave me my date!!!!!!  Starting 2 week liquid diet on 11/25/11, preop 11/30/11 and my date is December 9th!  

So now i'm excited and the nerves are setting in.  I am nervous of living off of liquids for 2 weeks.  I'm getting nervous for the actual surgery too!  I'm not liking the idea of being intubated and maybe because I am a nurse, I have a fear that I won't be able to be extubated.  Getting nerves about the pain I am anticipating after I wake up and during recovery.  I'm also scared that I am going to be a sense of being deprived or mourning the "loss" of ALL the foods I won't be able to have, and that makes me nervous.  Are these stupid or valid concerns?  I'm probably just being silly.  Well I hope everyone is doing well and again, I am so thankful there is a site like this that I can come to and write my feelings down, and I know that there are others in my shoes!

Take care yall!

A carrot , an egg, and a cup of coffee...



You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.






A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.






Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying A word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see." "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma the daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its insides became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the ho****er, the very cir****tance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The Happiest of People Don't Necessarily Have the Best of everything; They Just Make the Most of Everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

You might want to send this message to those people who mean something to you (I JUST DID); to those who have touched your life in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down; to those whose friendship you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful in your life.

If you don't (re)send it, you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone's day with this message!

May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!

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Those are good choices but, I'd be careful with the marinara sauce as it is tomato and tomatos are acidic and could be irritating to your stomach. 

You can also try Unjury's cheese sauce which is available now for a short time and their chicken broth.  A bit of caution with Unjury products, though, keep the liquid you mix it with to 130 degrees or less otherwise it clumps up.  Outside of that, it's very good.

you need more protein, lose the bagel now, you won't be eating them post op