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Thanks Mag! I'll take a virtual hug! (((MAG)))

 sending u a great big hug.  Here I was venting about my life and it seems that yours has been just as stressful.  Definitely makes me appreciate your kind words and your advice.  So I am gonna throw that advice right back atcha.  You have to care about you now more than ever.  So make the time to be halthy and HAPPY.  I wish you all the best.

HUGS
fran

 (((((HUGS)))))
Your in my prayers , And one of theses days we will have to meet up and take break......... I know its been hard but its good you are doing what is right for you.

(((((HUGS AGAIN))))), Lisa

Hey. thanx for the pep talk.  I do deserve to take care of myself.  Thats what I am trying to do.  So far it has been a good week. 

Baby had a condition called gastrocenchisais (something like that, but its where her bowels were growing outside her stomach in utero).  1st surgery was to remove necrotic bowels.  2nd and 3rd surgery was to put the intestines back in.  The last surgery was to remove inflammed/ possible necrotic bowels.

Fiance has been in charge of the housework ever since hes been off.  But the dishes are washed once a week and sit in the sink the rest of the time.  empty soda bottles sit on the counter (his not mine).  Floor might get swept or mopped once every 2 weeks.  He doesnt vaccum, I normally do that.  I do the bathroom, bc no one likes to do that.  We do the laundry togehter.  He will wash my uniforms for me while I am sleeping and such.  He does do the housework, just not at the level that I think it should be done when he is home all day.  The dishes could be washed everyday.  The floor could be vaccummed ev ery few days.  I refuse to do any of the cleaning, unless we are having visitors over.  Other than that when he does the kitchen now it usually takes him 2-4 hours.  Trying to get him to see that if he does something an hour a day, it will get him moving, keep the house looking nicer, and not be so harder or take so long to do.

Also been worried about his health because his only exercise has been walking from the couch to the bathroom/kitchen to get something to eat or drink and a 20minute walk with the dog once or twice a week.  I am worried hes gonna have a stroke or something because hes not taking care of himself.  So my goal is to get him to the gym with me.  I cant make him eat any better since hes the one doing the cooking.. but I am gonna try once or twice a hwalthy cooking night with a new recipe..

Long .. sorry.  Hope u are doing well.! how's school? hows the grandbabies?

hugs
fran

Hi Patrece,

    Good to hear from you. I'm sorry you are going through so much right now in your life. Wish I could be there and give you a hug.     Mag