Bariatric Buddy
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Topic: RE: sorry i havent been on update
Yayyy for you Tim. Having someone to help is great. I hope your mom continues to be a good supporter. I am glad you quit the soda. Keep on losing, you will have your turn for surgery one of these months. Keep working on the activity.
Topic: RE: Newbie Here
Welcome to the family Crystal. I had RNY, the sleeve was not offered where I had surgery at the time I was preping for surgery, I have not researched it much, but do have friends at local support group that have had the sleeve and much success. I do not regret my surgery, just glad that I finally got brave enough to do this for myself.
Patrece already addressed the pre op diet. Do do what you can to lose any weight before surgery, the lost weight makes the surgery easier on you and the surgical team. Start using salad size plates and smaller bowls for foods to assist in smaller portions. Drink your 64 ounces of fluids a day helps to keep yourself full and satisfied as you prepare for surgery. Getting used to sipping on fluids during the day, this will be life after surgery. I feel best when I get in more than the minimum fluids a day.
The ball of feelings, up, down, excited, anticipation, all wrapped up together is normal. If you have access to a local support group, get involved, knowing that there are others that have made it through helps. Post often, read posts, new and older, there is great info. Ask any and all questions, we try our best to share from our own experiences. I hope some that are post sleeve also reply. Hugs and let's be loser's together.
Patrece already addressed the pre op diet. Do do what you can to lose any weight before surgery, the lost weight makes the surgery easier on you and the surgical team. Start using salad size plates and smaller bowls for foods to assist in smaller portions. Drink your 64 ounces of fluids a day helps to keep yourself full and satisfied as you prepare for surgery. Getting used to sipping on fluids during the day, this will be life after surgery. I feel best when I get in more than the minimum fluids a day.
The ball of feelings, up, down, excited, anticipation, all wrapped up together is normal. If you have access to a local support group, get involved, knowing that there are others that have made it through helps. Post often, read posts, new and older, there is great info. Ask any and all questions, we try our best to share from our own experiences. I hope some that are post sleeve also reply. Hugs and let's be loser's together.
OH Support Group Leader
Come visit us at the bariatric buddy group http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy/welcome
Come visit us at the bariatric buddy group http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy/welcome
Topic: RE: Exercise for those with knee and back problems
Hi Diana, I was going to add my 2 cents about checking online for chair exercises. I have looked up things for curiosity sake. Anything that you can do to get your heart rate up and your muscles moving helps. Check out silver sneakers online too for ideas. Someone from a local group of silver sneakers stopped by our support group one evening, brought some of their exercise balls and we worked out from our chairs. Quite a workout.
Take your friend up on access to the pool when you can, the water helps support your weight to make things easier on your knees. Walking in the water, even holding on to the side of the pool gets your heart rate up. Best of luck with finding exercises that work, the bike sounds good too. Hugs
Take your friend up on access to the pool when you can, the water helps support your weight to make things easier on your knees. Walking in the water, even holding on to the side of the pool gets your heart rate up. Best of luck with finding exercises that work, the bike sounds good too. Hugs
Topic: RE: hi i missed u guys
Great to hear from you Gilda. Congrats on your success, over 200# gone, and pregnant. Sorry about your miscarriage. Follow your MD advice and praying for an uneventful pregnancy. Do come back and share from time to time. You look great in your new pic. Congrats!!!!
Topic: RE: Hi everyone!
I love long intro's, welcome to the group Shannon. I have been MIA for a few days. Life overtook me. I am nearly 2 years out from RNY surgery, I don't know where the time has gone. I was referred to OH for support by surgeon's office. Loved the support I found here and stayed on to assist others through the process.
I have been wearing a cpap mask for several years now. Loving that I have more energy with good sleep. There are different styles of masks if yours does not feel good. Give the cpap machine time, you will get used to it. I even wear mine when taking a nap. The mask I like best looks a little like a scuba snorkle, just fits below my nose (my cpap mustache). I now need 1/2 of the pressure I did when I weighed more. Many of my meds are decreased too. Diabetes is better controlled as well.
Your insurance company and surgeon will have requirements to complete before surgery. Often insurance requires a 6 month supervised diet before approving surgery. I did lose some weight during this diet, but then I did with many other diets over the years too. The trick is getting a smaller pouch to limit portions. I am satisfied with much less food that I used to consume. Yayyyy pouch. Work your way through these before surgery challenges, I see them as hoops that we need to jump through to make it to the goal of surgery.
Looking forward to getting to know you better. Ask any and all questions, read posts, new and older. Do what you can to start losing weight before surgery. Someone else mentioned monday chat sessions, love visiting with everyone that comes to chat times. Hugs
I have been wearing a cpap mask for several years now. Loving that I have more energy with good sleep. There are different styles of masks if yours does not feel good. Give the cpap machine time, you will get used to it. I even wear mine when taking a nap. The mask I like best looks a little like a scuba snorkle, just fits below my nose (my cpap mustache). I now need 1/2 of the pressure I did when I weighed more. Many of my meds are decreased too. Diabetes is better controlled as well.
Your insurance company and surgeon will have requirements to complete before surgery. Often insurance requires a 6 month supervised diet before approving surgery. I did lose some weight during this diet, but then I did with many other diets over the years too. The trick is getting a smaller pouch to limit portions. I am satisfied with much less food that I used to consume. Yayyyy pouch. Work your way through these before surgery challenges, I see them as hoops that we need to jump through to make it to the goal of surgery.
Looking forward to getting to know you better. Ask any and all questions, read posts, new and older. Do what you can to start losing weight before surgery. Someone else mentioned monday chat sessions, love visiting with everyone that comes to chat times. Hugs
OH Support Group Leader
Come visit us at the bariatric buddy group http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy/welcome
Come visit us at the bariatric buddy group http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy/welcome
Topic: RE: Exercise for those with knee and back problems
Best of luck, and feel free to share anything useful you might find.
Patrece
JUST DO THE NEXT RIGHT THING!
Obesity Help Support Group Leader & Coach
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy
Lost 114 lbs. working on getting rid of a recent 10 lb regain...and WILL succeed!
Topic: RE: Last Minute Insurance Approval Reversal
Kathy, Stand strong and never give up! Maybe you could give the insurance company an incentive to approve since they will have to pay for doing all of these visits and reuirements over again??? Keep us posted!
Patrece
JUST DO THE NEXT RIGHT THING!
Obesity Help Support Group Leader & Coach
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy
Lost 114 lbs. working on getting rid of a recent 10 lb regain...and WILL succeed!
Topic: RE: Last Minute Insurance Approval Reversal
Thanks so much Patrece....you are probably right, changing insurance would be a mistake. I am now in waiting mode after getting my head back in the right space to fight it. I have requested a formal review and also a waiver from my company on the limitation which they are in process of assessing. I have to say this is very stressful - i also looked into getting a new surgeon / program but they all seem to require starting from scrat*****luding the initial information session!! And assessments by their nutritionists, behavior etc. so will take about 6 months - like doing it all again. I am livid as this could all have been avoided if the insurance company had not given the go ahead in the first place grrr. They will not win - I will keep on pushing!! Just hope others double check if there are any restrictions despite what they are told to avoid the last minute surprise! Take care!
Hugs,
Kathy
Hugs,
Kathy
Topic: RE: Last Minute Insurance Approval Reversal
I strongly encourage you not to even try to change insurances at this point. It would result in a huge delay if not denial possibly. I would recommend locating a surgeon on thier list seeing who will take you the fastest, and getting it done. Then think of changing. I also recommend asking the wls doc you were going to have it through to provide you with ALL documentation on all of the pre-op stuff you did, as a new doc will have to have all of it to submit for approval.
I am so sorry you have to go through this. What a kick in the head! I would be livid! My heart is with you. Just do all you can asap and get it done while the getting is good girl. Hang in there, and DO NOT let them win this battle!
I am so sorry you have to go through this. What a kick in the head! I would be livid! My heart is with you. Just do all you can asap and get it done while the getting is good girl. Hang in there, and DO NOT let them win this battle!
Patrece
JUST DO THE NEXT RIGHT THING!
Obesity Help Support Group Leader & Coach
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy
Lost 114 lbs. working on getting rid of a recent 10 lb regain...and WILL succeed!