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 I got cold feet the day of surgery lol.  Right before my surgeon came in to get me, I got this panicky feeling to rip my IV out of my hand and run out to make a dash for the nearest pizza parlor in my hospital gown.  I had my mom there with me, and she reminded me to remember why I'm doing all of this.  and that was enough for me.  I did my sleeve for many reasons I suppose, but the most important for my son.  I wasn't going to live to be much of a mom for him if I had a stroke or something and couldn't move much.  My life wasn't a life anymore.  It was death walking.  I didn't want to leave my son to fend for himself in this world.. life isn't the same without your mother.  That pushed me and gave me strength where I did not have it.  

Just breathe and it's going to be ok.  Nothing is going to beat the awesome feeling of having your life back.  And the discomfort is a temporary thing.

 Hi Crystal,

There is nothing I can say except jump right in, feet first into the cold water.  It's worth it.   You did the research.  You made it to the finish line.  You are going to join us on the losing bench.  Good for you!!  My prayers and blessings for a safe and pleasant hospital stay.  Just remember the reasons that kept you through the hoops, remember everyone that loves you and is cheering you on.  Us included.  

I'm getting really nervous about tomorrow. How much pain is usually involved with the sleeve? I'm sorry I sound like a wimp, I am always really nervous before surgery. Are there any encouranging words or something that I can memorize to keep saying like a mantra to help relax? I know I am doing this for the right reasons of getting healthy and being active again but I am doubting myself now. Asking for prayers please.
Thanks,
crystal

Hi!  I'm Danyelle and had gastric bypass on May 31, 2011.  My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years and we have three great teenagers....well, most of the time they're great.  I tried for too many years to lose weight and after much prayer and discussion decided bariatric surgery was my best option.  When I started the journey, I weighed 267 lbs and today I'm down to 220.  I am still struggling with fatigue and getting enough protein but it's getting better.  With work, a family and too many commitments, I don't have a lot of time to be online, but will drop in when I can.  Thanks for the support y'all have already given me!

Hey Stephen!  I agree with the head hunger.  I'm loving not eating much right now but know later I'll miss having sweets and such.  I am taking it day by day and not looking ahead too far.  Thanks for the encouragement!!