Bout time I show up again...huh? so much happening!

Well so very much has been happening in my life. I have been going through a divorce, a couple of moves, and a whole lot of stress! There was a lot to work out and agree on in the divorce, but finally at mediation we came to agreements on everything. My divorce will be final on Tuesday, or is supposed to be anyhow. It has all been approved by the judge just waiting for 90 days to pass, and on day 91 (Tuesday) it should be signed by the judge. In the midst of all of this, there has been lots of other stressers, but also lots of good too.

I did get a bit too liberal on my food choices, and am back up about 10 lbs. Time to once again nip that in the bud! I did this when I was in college, and got it back off, and so shall I do this again! I just have to stay focused no matter what is going on, and not allow myself to get distracted. Once you are 2 to 3 years out, if you start to lose focus, the weight comes back so easily and quickly. BUT it doesn't go away again nearly as efficiently! Takes a lot of focus, determination, discipline and hard work.

Things are very busy for me in life right now. I cannot be here as much as I'd like to be, but do know I care about you all. Right now I have to get focused on getting my divorce final, getting back to plan, getting more activity in again, and deciding where I want to go in and with my life and my future.

You all take time to be kind to yourselves and best of luck to all where ever you may be in this journey!
HUGS!

I have missed you!
glad you are getting your life in order

Thanks Cindy! Have missed you too! Yep order is coming gradually. Thank goodness! LOL You are sooooo close to goal!

Hi Patrece,

    Good to hear from you. I'm sorry you are going through so much right now in your life. Wish I could be there and give you a hug.     Mag

Thanks Mag! I'll take a virtual hug! (((MAG)))

 (((((HUGS)))))
Your in my prayers , And one of theses days we will have to meet up and take break......... I know its been hard but its good you are doing what is right for you.

(((((HUGS AGAIN))))), Lisa

WOW Lisa look at you girl! YES we will definately have to do that girl! All will be good, just gotta get through the hard parts.
((((Hugs back at ya!)))) Hope things have been going well for you!

Your a strong woman you will do well and get through all this... Woman power!  So  Proud of you!!!!!!!!Thanks for the Wow.... As soon as things calm down and I have a five minutes to myself I will give you a call..... were on baby watch now it can be any time but then they said that two weeks ago lol I think my grandson is going to prove them all wrong hehehehehe and come late and be a Christmas baby.....

Hugs, Lisa

Thanks Lisa! I know you must be very excited for that little one to come... Big time difference between now and Christmas! What is the due date? Lets just look forward to his safe and healthy arrival when it is time, and be sure to let us know when that is!

A little frustrated with the courts...the judge in particular. Was supposed to sign off on the divorce papers today, as today is actually 92 days since Paul was served with the papers and the law says 91 days then judge can sign off. Now he's claiming 91 days is not until next week, even tho when he approved our agreement he had specifically given todays date. UGGGHHHH!!!  Oh well guess its better than it could have been. If Paul had refused to come to an agreement, it would have been Feb or March.

Look forward to hearing from you soon.

I would be too...... But if he will sign off on the papers next week that will be great but sometimes the courts and judges have there own schedule.     I am glad to hear that you and Paul came to agreement, Makes the process better to get through all of it......... My Daughter Ashley had a due date of Dec 15 but the Genetics dr said Dec 3 and as of last week the baby was about 7 pounds , We went back to the Dr again today and they will do another sonagram this friday to check the size of the baby........ if she last that long, she is already a 1-2 centemeters dialated but who knows how ever they did say no mater what on Dec 7 if she has not had the baby they will induce.....Funny thing is the OB dr did not think she was even going to make it this far... and she has that why I joke around and say it might be a Christmas baby....... although my daugher tells me a am crazy.... she says she will not wait that long.... She is naming the baby Eizik Reese after her great grandfather. I will let you know when he blesses us with his presents.
Talk to you soon , Lisa