Tomorrows the big day!

I'm getting really nervous about tomorrow. How much pain is usually involved with the sleeve? I'm sorry I sound like a wimp, I am always really nervous before surgery. Are there any encouranging words or something that I can memorize to keep saying like a mantra to help relax? I know I am doing this for the right reasons of getting healthy and being active again but I am doubting myself now. Asking for prayers please.
Thanks,
crystal

 Hi Crystal,

There is nothing I can say except jump right in, feet first into the cold water.  It's worth it.   You did the research.  You made it to the finish line.  You are going to join us on the losing bench.  Good for you!!  My prayers and blessings for a safe and pleasant hospital stay.  Just remember the reasons that kept you through the hoops, remember everyone that loves you and is cheering you on.  Us included.  

Crystal, welcome to the losing side of surgery.  Congratulations.  Loved Jane's reply, wish I could state it better.  The pain meds work, take this one day at a time.  You have made a healthy decision for you.  Hugs

Hi Chrystal,
Congratulations!Hope you are feeling great physically and mentally! I know I am - going into 4 weeks post surgery. My recovery has been better than I thought. Follow the doctor's advice, take the pain meds when you need it - take naps often and be kind to yourself and you will feel great. It gets easier as you go and I think you will feel so happy for taking this positive step for yourself!
Hugs,
Kathy

Crystal,  I will send my prayers up for you.  Know that the pain will pass and you are doing the right thing.  As others have said, you have done the prep and you have traveled a rough road to get to this point.  The surgery is the crossroads.  You will step on a new, healthier path once it's done.  And, you are not alone... you have us and you have your higher power.  Take comfort in that and know we are all rooting for you.
May God work through your surgeons and give you healing physically and spiritually.
Diana