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Update on my parental visit

Twennyoh
on 5/15/11 4:45 pm - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
Well I'm still going to hell and my sister And I are rotten children that deserve to burn in hell ! Well that's ok at first I was numb over everything my parents were saying to us but now I am really mentally mortified they were yelling like crazy people , I guess I will never understand them or why they are that way and right now I am thankful for sister and her family ,my husband ,all my kids 'and my husbands family they really all rallied around my sister and I today after the meeting with our parents..... Btw the state is remanding my parents to a in care retirement center to do further test and medical treatment . Sadly their church is fighting it so who knows, I hope the state wins and they get the help they need mentally and Heath wise. Well Monday will be a new day and I hope it's better, unjust want to thank everyone for their support in this it has ment the world to me.

Hugs,'lisa
                                            
Mag (Marguerite) P.
on 5/16/11 5:18 am - Green Valley, AZ
Lisa,
   I am so sorry things went so poorly for you and your sister. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Be good to yourself  Mag   
           
Twennyoh
on 5/16/11 7:47 am - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
Thanks mags, I should be be used to all this but im not. But for now I will just take care of me and try to enjoy the rest of my time here in califonia.
Patrece S.
on 5/17/11 1:16 am - CO
Hey Lisa,

I am so sorry things went as they did. I know you pretty much expected it, but I also know you were hoping for things to turn out differently. I want to encourage you to NOT let this rip you apart. Remember, it isn't about you...it is about them, and some twisted beliefs they have in their heads. You are an awesome lady, and what they expected from you wasn't exactly typical. You just live life in a way that is normal in our culture... (seeking medical care etc...).

You have a wonderful family and good friends. Embrace those relationships, and try to heal from the other. I had to do this when it came to my mother. I got smart and realized to have half a chance to live a decently normal life, I had to keep a distance physically and mentally from her. If you need to talk, you have my number.

Hugs of acceptance and comfort coming to you.

Patrece
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Twennyoh
on 5/17/11 11:09 am - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
Patrece,

Thank you and I will, I'm still trying to get myself centered again but I really think I will do much better when I leave California this Friday . Again thanks.
Hugs, Lisa
Kathy B.
on 5/17/11 5:57 pm - Virginia, MN
Lisa, I am here for you.  Praying that the state takes your parents best interest into mind.  Hugs
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Twennyoh
on 5/19/11 1:18 am - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
Kathy,

Thank you very much, I trust that the state will do what is best for my parents and my sister and I were able to pick a guardian for them so we can step back and know they will be ok. Now I get to work on myself and recover from all this.... So thankful I am heading back to tx Friday morning.

Hugs, Lisa

Patrece S.
Group Leader

Kathy B.
Co- Leader
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