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Need lots of luck and good thoughts....

Twennyoh
on 5/12/11 12:43 am, edited 5/11/11 9:31 pm - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
Well as some know my parents disowned me for my choice and my beliefs, well sadly I got a call from the county that they live in and my parents were removed from there home due to abuse from a family member..... No surprise there, but I'm in californing now and dealing with this mess . This afternoon I go to a hearing on my parents to see if they are of sound mind..... This is like a nightmare ! And on Sunday they want to see me and my oldest sister " she was disowned too like me" I'm not sure how or what will come out of all this but atleast I know the state has stepped in and they will get the help they need, so please wish me luck.....
Thank you to all my friends here on this site.
                                            
Kathy B.
on 5/12/11 1:09 am - Virginia, MN
Wow Lisa, you have me in your corner.  I don't understand premed???  Hope you and your sister get things straightened out.  Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. 
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Twennyoh
on 5/12/11 9:30 am - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
 opps I meant "Parents" not premed ... I was typing that out on my I-phone.... Thank you for keeping me in your thoughts and prayers. Well my parents were deemed as incompetent... no surprise there... but the look on there faces almost killed me ... but they still want to see us on Sunday.............. planning for the worst but hoping for the best.
                                            
Kathy B.
on 5/12/11 10:34 am - Virginia, MN
Makes perfect sense now Lisa, thanks.  Do keep yourself in the number one position as you face the upcoming challenges.  Yes indeed, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  Hoping for the best with you.  Hugs
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dlappin413
on 5/12/11 1:54 am - Woodstock, GA
As is Kathy, I'm in your corner, too, and I also don't understand "and boy my premed were removed from there home due to abuse from a family member.:  In any case, you are dealing with a difficult situation with stress and high emotions.  Hang in there.  And... God's grace.
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Twennyoh
on 5/12/11 9:32 am - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
 sorry typo but fixed now... Thank you very much for your suport.
Mag (Marguerite) P.
on 5/12/11 4:58 am - Green Valley, AZ

((((Lisa))))),
   Wow. I am sorry that all this is happening in your life. I don't know what to say except that we are here for you and care about you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Keep posting. Vent when you need to. Please take care of yourself. You need to be # 1 to be able to handle all the stress you are encountering. My heart goes out to you.   Mag 

           
Twennyoh
on 5/12/11 9:33 am - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
 Thanks Mag I needed that.... and I will remember to keep me number 1# your right I have too.

Hugs, Lisa
Patrece S.
on 5/12/11 3:18 pm - CO
Ohhhh honey... I remember us talking about your parents quite a whikle back and thier decision to disown you and your sister because you would not allow them to run your lives basically. I KNOW tis is going to be a rough situation. Hang in there gal, and be strong. Remember, you come first. Do what you feel is right, but please do not allow the abuse your parents were rescued from, become the abuse you must endure from them. Stand strong and keep your boundries. I know you love them. Just keep loving yourself too ok?

PLEASE keep us updated on what happens

Patrece
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Twennyoh
on 5/13/11 4:46 am - TX
RNY on 01/15/10 with
Patrece,
Thank you. I will keep what you said to heart, so far I have been able to take care of me and staying strong but I'm still not sure what is going to happen Sunday........ But for now I am going to enjoy the moment visiting my sister and her family.

Hugs, Lisa

Patrece S.
Group Leader

Kathy B.
Co- Leader
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