HMMMM moment in time.

Sorry I did not know of the cir****tances.. but reading the replies and thinking.. could there be more to just wanting money? check into their health, you did mention health problems.. could it be that the other side to this could be too that there is serious health issues an somebody wants to attempt some communication? .. as that is a thought.. I do agree to be cautious.. the sudden communication wether it is a card or email or phone call.. is suspicious, but mentioning health problems.. reminded me of a family member, who had disowned their children for reasons I felt was stupid.. but they did.. 10 years.. no talking.. the mother found out she was very ill.. tracked down her son and duaghters and just to say..she loved them ..... the mother died 4 months later... Now I am not saying this is the exact same.. but it reminded me..and think of all corners before settling on one reason .... as for your siblings.. another story..lol... but I would be cautious but question the health... good luck

Both of my parents have health problems and to be honest I have gone through the ringer when it comes to them and I will always love them but it would not surprise me if one of them were dieing as sad as that is my hands are tied they will never go to a Dr or a hosp. it is their religious beliefs ... I have only sent them a card back signing it with love for myself and my family but I think it will have to stop their for me... dont get me wrong I do love them but I have found out little bits here and there from the neighbors that live next to them and they said my parents home is now up for sale  and I feel bad for them but nothing I can do and they will be fine .. their church will move them into a assisted living home ..... I just do not want to be welcomed back into their life because I have money in savings.. you know what I mean? now if they acepted me for who I am I would open my arms and my self to them but it comes down to they disowed me because I went to a Dr and chose to live a normal life..... I do thank you for your words and thanks for the wishes of good luck.... Im going to need it..

Lisa