Dating

Ok Peeps,
I need some advise.  Now that I am way.. smaller than I used to be. I want to start dating.
All my life I was huge and didn't feel worthy of dating, plus I always used my weight as a shield against men do to some bad experiences.

Well, I am emotionally healed and feel great about myself.. my question is .. Where do I start?
all my friends/family are married and are enjoying the coupledom and have no single male friends.  Do I do a online dating services??

HELP!

very good question... and not sure what is right for you. Any local singles groups? Church? Online is an option too, just be cautious as many tend to represent themselves as something they are not. I met my hubby online. I think we first connected through american singles. Been married over 11 years now.

I am glad that you are feeling more confident in yourself Ledaizey.  Let the word out to your friends that you are looking, they might come up with options over time.  The church idea, singles groups are posibilities.  I see ads for local singles group functions in the local paper here all the time.

I tried the looking at church( nearly all were much older than I), the gym(but I was not a gym rat), walking around town with the dogs, browsing the hardware stores, etc. 

Dennis and I met online too.  We chatted online for a few weeks, talked on the phone and finally decided to meet each other.  Neither of us recalls which online dating service we met on, both were on 2-3 sites.  We are celebrating 2.5 years of marriage next month.   Do be careful online, I communicated with a few unsavory characters.  Never went to meet them or gave out identifying information. 

Come and share your finds, love to hear a great romance story.  There is a singles forum here at OH too.

Have you tried going out to meet guys?? I know when I have gone to functions of different kinds I have met ppl that way?