Devastated!!

Phyllis H.
on 4/13/10 3:13 am - Conneaut, OH

Allen an I are just devastated, We found out today the baby no longer has a heart beat and stopped growing at 11wks 5 days ( a week ago as i am 12wks 6days). They are scheduling me for a DnC tomorrow or Thursday...

Highest-214/ Dr. Goal-140/ My Goal-135/ Current-122 Height 5' 2"

ledaizey
on 4/13/10 3:26 am - Fremont, OH

RNY on 03/16/10 with

Oh No.. I am so sorry for your loss. I have never had children so I know I can not relate to your devastation, but please know that I am praying for you.

LeDaizey

Amalia S.
on 4/13/10 3:37 am - Athens, Greece

VSG on 01/26/10

Oh Phyllis, that's terrible news! I know how you must feel, I had an ectopic pregnancy years ago and almost died from it. It was very sad but yours must be even worse since you were further along than I was. Have courage my dear, your whole life is ahead of you.

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Kathy B.
on 4/13/10 3:58 am - Virginia, MN

RNY on 09/02/09

Phyllis, hugs to you and Allen. So sorry for your loss. Words can not express my sympathy enough. Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.

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Misty S.
on 4/13/10 6:42 am - Aurora, CO

RNY on 06/14/10

Im so so sorry for your loss.

Surgery Date June 14th, 2010.

annielou176
on 4/13/10 8:14 am - Lexington, AL

I am so sorry for your lost. Remember God knows best. I will keep you in my prayers. God Bless you too.

Patrece S.
on 4/13/10 8:19 am - CO

RNY on 07/21/08

Ohhhhhhhhh honey.... Phyl honey... I am so so so sorry for you and Allen on the loss of this most hoped for little one. I am in tears as I write this, not having the right thing to say, as nothing will seem enough to say or do to ease your pain.

Is there a way they can finbd our WHY this keeps happening? My heart is just broken for you Phyl. Imagine a great big tight bear hug just squishing you so tight right now...
Love and hugs and wishes and prayers for comfort coming your way Phyl. (To Allen also).

Patrece
JUST DO THE NEXT RIGHT THING!
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Phyllis H.
on 4/13/10 10:26 pm - Conneaut, OH

RNY on 03/13/07

Trece, thank you for the big bear hug !! It was needed and felt!! We have decided to have gentic testing done to see why it happened this time - I also had an apt with my GP yesterday and he decided to do some blood work something about Allen and I being compatable - so that is about all we can do at this time.

Highest-214/ Dr. Goal-140/ My Goal-135/ Current-122 Height 5' 2"

donsharleygirl
on 4/13/10 8:45 am - Lincoln Park, MI

RNY on 09/30/09

I am so sorry for your loss. A freind of mine just lost her baby at 20 weeks as was also devasted. I have no words other than that I will keep you in my prayers.

Colleen

Colleen