Bariatric Buddy
A way to explain it to my friends who don't understand
I was looking for a way to explain my decision to my friends that don't understand WLS and why I would undergo it. Not because I want their approval because it isn't the friends that don't approve of the surgery that I want to explain it to...its the friends wh sincerely are worried about me. This is what I came up with and how I gave those friends peace of mind.
I explained that it wasn't about vanity, that it is about quality of life. It is about walking up a flight of stairs and being able to breath, its about taking the train into Penn Station and actually walking to my office ten blocks away without my ankles and knees swelling up and having to stop to catch my breath. Its about playing basketball with my daughter rather than sitting on the sidelines. Its about getting off the sidelines and being a participant in the game of life.
Believe it or not, it actually helped one of my very best friends come to peace with my surgery and understand why I have to do this. There are a few more people I have to talk to, because the people that are scared for me are the ones that love me the most.
Patrece
JUST DO THE NEXT RIGHT THING!
Obesity Help Support Group Leader & Coach
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy
Lost 114 lbs. working on getting rid of a recent 10 lb regain...and WILL succeed!
Keep the explaination simple, that you need to do something to improve your health. You can make a list of the risks and benefits of surgery and come up with a story that the risks and benefits point that this is your best chance for health. Hope the talks go well. Best of luck
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