Bariatric Buddy
hello, everyone
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Call me anytime...day or night, if you need to talk. I love you and feel so badly for all you face right now. Wish there was more i could do for you.
Big giant hugs to you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers always! Please let me know what they find going on with you.
Patrece
Patrece
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Obesity Help Support Group Leader & Coach
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Lost 114 lbs. working on getting rid of a recent 10 lb regain...and WILL succeed!
Great big hugs coming on down to TX for you. (((((Hugs))))) Kathy
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During the time when my mom was dying and didn't want outside help, I eventually called hospice, more for dad than anything else. I knew he would get follow up support from a good group of people. Mom was so weak, she didn't have much say in the arrangement. She was mad at me, but dad got such benefit for the next year after she passed. I did it for my dad. In hind sight, I would have signed her up earlier. She was only on hospice a week. I had a couple of good friends that were nurses that also came over to help with lifting her when she insisted on getting up. I don't know what I would have done without them. I wish you all the support locally that you need. If I was in town, I would help you. Too long a commute from MN to TX. I am here for you. ((((((Hugs)))))) Kathy
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I hate to say this but I believe it is time to stand up to your dad and put him in place, let him know how this is affecting you. He needs to know that this has taken its toll on you.
And he needs to accept outside help, my mom is a home health care giver and believe me they know how to make folks settle down and accept the help without being snotty or anyones feelings being hurt. She just goes in for 1 to 3 hours a day to patients who's family members need a break.
Tell him if he dont accept the assistance for him and your mother, you will accept it for YOURSELF because you need a break, and if he cant live with that... Do it anyway! He will get used to it.
I hate to put it like this but this is what my mom said tell you.
Group Huggz,
Just Meee aka Linda
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Highest weight 406, Surgery weight 386, and now on the Losers Bench!
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I am waiting on a call or an email from the surgeons office today, I may have to do my hemocults over again, but I have Dr. Cagles office on wait to send test results over as soon as they get them, if I have to do it over.
So I still dont have an appointment yet but am on the edge of my seat, ready for the call for first appointment with them.
Just Meee aka Linda
Come join me in the Bariatric Buddy Group
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bariatricbuddy/
Highest weight 406, Surgery weight 386, and now on the Losers Bench!