go to doc with dad tomorrow

we find out if my dad has cancer in the area from his neck to his groin.  i asked my husband to goo with us. dad told mom he didn't want her to go so i'm wondering how he will feel about todd going.  i'm scared.  wish us luck. i appreciate all your support, vick

I'm sure you are scared. My heart is so with you and your parents. Does your Dad not want your Mom there because he's afraid of what they have to say and don't want her falling apart? How awful this whole situation is. I'm so sorry Vick. This is soooo scarey. Please keep us posted, and you reach out for support if needed. I am here for you!
Hugs and love.

i don't kmow why dad doesn't want mom to go. personally i think it is pretty crappy of him.  but on the other hand it is real hard for mom to get out and i don't know if she really wants to go. go figure, you couldn't drag me away from todd's side. vick

Hi Vick, keeping you and your family in my prayers.  How is your hand doing?  Are you able to allow it to heal?

kathy, it hurts . a real bad deep ache. thanks for thinking of me and my family. vick