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Even among the much younger crowd at the gym, I'm sure you stand out as strong and fit. How wonderful to use that fitness on your spectacular trip.
I attended a funeral for a former student last year ( he died by suicide his sophomore year). It's beyond sad. But I did love the picture of you and your former students in my mind. I'll look forward to it on TT.
That bus looks like a hoot to travel in! I kind of love riding in golf carts, so I would enjoy that. It's a shame your SIL is struggling so much. Wheelchairs seem like a good idea. In Italy, (so maybe Spain too?)they have made great efforts to improve accessibility, but I think overall it's tough in Europe because old buildings often have many levels, a step here, a step there, and they're difficult to retrofit.
Today is my last day with my Aunt. We were up at 5am, which was better than 4am yesterday. she is able to sleep for longer periods, and this morning was able to sit up in bed unassisted. She still needs a little assist to stand up. I set up her pills for the week, and a few other things so there is a little less to deal with when they are mostly on their own. I can see my Aunt's stamina is increasing, so they should be okay.
It will be good to see DD tonight, and lay down and sleep, and not get up until I'm done sleeping. :)
I started a post yesterday, but never finished. By the time I got back to it... Well, it was late, I was tired, so it went bye bye!
204 on the nose this morning. So it does look like I was holding on to some water. This is only 3.2 pounds over my pre-cruise weigh in. I am very okay with this. I had a good session with the NUT yesterday. We agreed I don't need to "diet" these extra pounds off. They will come off as I get back into my regular eating groove.
Yesterday I went to the funeral of a former student (only 17 years old). A funeral for such a young person is hard. I was honored to be mentioned by the mother during her eulogy to her son as having made an impact on his life. I was impressed by her strength and by the stoic comportment of her remaining children. They all took part in the funeral rites, the daughter even doing a reading. I don't know if I would have been able to manage that. Yes, I did it for my mom, but losing a parent is far, far different from losing a child. Observation tells me there is no worse loss that one can suffer.
A cheerful note was getting to see many former students and their parents. One of the moms gathered a few of boys that had been in the same class with the deceased and took a photo of the boys with me. They will start senior year of HS in August. Oh, and they all tower over me. The height difference made me laugh! I'll post on TT.
I am toying with the idea of going to the gym today. Time to get back into my fitness routine. Speaking of which, I am extremely happy (and proud) to report that other than one man on the cruise in his late 40s, I was the most visually fit person on the boat. That was pretty damn eye opening. I compare myself to men at the gym (most of whom are at least 10-15 years younger). I don't generally find myself in groups where I see a lot of men my age. (Remember teaching is predominantly a female profession.)
Home is good. While I immensely enjoyed my travels, I am happy to be home and in my own bed. I was just thinking that I don't know if I could keep Liz's travel schedule, but realized with the road trips I have planned with the dogs the next few months, my travels will be just as packed as hers! LOL! I guess I don't think of road trips as travel.
CC, when will you leave for Michigan?
I meant to mention that we had an interesting interchange with our tour driver: She was telling us that there would be a pride parade next week and I mentioned that Boston had one last week. She asked what we thought about what was going on in America, and we said that having a pride parade was good, but we are very unhappy about a lot of other things going on. Just generalities but obviously even tour operators are hearing about American politics.
Also, DH lost another 4.4 pounds. He is in his goal range now!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Morning #2 in Madrid.
Yesterday was okay but difficult for SIL. She has barely been eating crackers due to a medication she was on until a couple of days ago so in addition to her aches and pains she has no stamina. We did do the private "bus" tour - it was more like an elongated golf cart (see picture below). She almost passed out when we got off. It was hot, but more than that for her. My other SIL had to go find a cab at the end and have him drive over to us because she couldn't walk even 5 minutes to where they were. Some nice Spanish ladies stopped to make sure she was ok (she was and she wasn't). When we got home I went to the local market and got her a sandwich and some yogurt which she ate part of. It definitely revived her quite a but. DSD arrived yesterday afternoon so she came over in the afternoon and we went to dinner at a cute little tapas place just at the end of our street. SIL ate some more real food - not much but more than she had been. She was much better last night. DSD is taking responsibility for figuring out how to arrange for a wheelchair at the palace and the Prado museum, which we want to view while we are here.
So along with the nice Spanish people (they are generally friendly around here and it is a nice neighborhood), someone wrote "F--k AirBnb" on the door to this place during out first night. Expressing their frustration at the lack of affordable housing. So we are being careful about locking the door.
Today my healthy SIL and I have to walk to the Apple Store to get her iPhone fixed. We don't know what happened but it is all confused. It talks when she tries to unlock it and won't accept her unlock code. A forced restart doesn't fix it so we need some professional help. Yesterday it actually dialed emergency and contacted her children as if she had an emergency at one point. She was able to assure the emergency people that it was due to a faulty phone and we had her text her children immediately on the iPad. Needless to say, they were concerned. Not sure what else we will do today. All is based on less healthy SIL's stamina. Right now it is almost 9:30 and neither of them are up. And I thought I was late getting up at 8:30!
Have a super Saturday!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
So sorry your friend has to avoid social situations to avoid the guy. She can't just literally avoid him at gatherings (or is he too invasive)?
Yep, keep that Will up to date (you know that of course). We need to put ours in a fireproof/waterproof box along with other important papers and make sure the kids know where it is and how to get into it (and inform them of what our wills say so they aren't surprised). Oh, and I think I am going to change mine to have the law office be the executor vs one of my kids on the advice of another attorney from out of state who I met playing golf. She has found it difficult to be the executor for her parents estate so has done that with her own Will. Keeps the infighting down. My DS can be very difficult with things like that.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Sounds like your aunt is progressing in her recovery. Hopefully she will need less and less help each day and that they will avail themselves of that extra help for a while. Again, so lucky that she has you.
And also hoping that during your visit with DD, you get to meet her new friend?!? My DH feels like he can't ever ask about his kid's love interests and just wait until it is offered up. I always try not to be TOO nosy but I ask more questions.
And yes you will develop a new "schedule" but it will be geared to your lifestyle rather than you having to fit into a work schedule.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
When you used to mention your calories they seemed a little low. I think the body just takes time to drop small amounts when at the end of a loss cycle.
Whimpering DH? LOL, I think my DH does that too when it is time to get moving.
And yeah that it is working out so far for DC!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Proud of you for getting up to 25 minutes on the treadmill. Hopefully DH does more than just shuffle around the stuff! Hoarding tendencies can be difficult. DC1 is a bit of a hoarder!
Sounds like your aunt is doing pretty well but still has a ways to go. Hopefully your uncle will be able to handle her care. It is nice that she can get meals delivered and pay for other services as needed. How cool is it that Pride cupcakes were on the menu! Very progressive for Senior Living! I love that!
Have a great time with DD. Perhaps you will get to meet her new beau?