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Sorry your Brazil trip has to be shortened. You will still have a great time. I like the idea of trying to get another trip in during the Spring, which we both know is more like winter in MN!
Your Dad sounds like he is doing pretty good. I?m sure if he likes to tinker, he will be able to find stuff to keep him busy. Hopefully for him most of the finances etc. are in his name. That was my biggest pain after Ben died. It took a good month of full days working on paperwork!
We brought my Mom to our house for the Holidays after my Dad had passed at the end of October. I think we had planned 2 weeks but she really just wanted to get back ?home? after that first week. I thought getting away would be good for her but she just needed the comfort of the familiar and maybe needed the solitude too to process her grief.
120.6 - Yikes! Up by 2 pounds and I haven't been this high since last April. Not that it is out of range but still. I don't feel like I have eaten differently though I have felt a bit constipated. I sure hope that's it.
Good day yesterday in Fort Pierce. It was quite warm but breezy. We saw a whole bunch of manatees lounging around in the marina there. They love warm water and sun.
Today the bus leaves at 7:30 (in an hour) for the usual breakfast. We have an airboat ride booked at 10:00 so Justice may end up with a shorter walk than usual. All the other kids have gone on airboat rides, but DS hasn't so I am glad we could fit it in. They are better when it is warm out like today because lots of gators will be swimming and lounging around. Tailgate party at the clubhouse this afternoon.
Have a sublime Sunday!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
It sounds like your Dad is doing pretty well. And that he is pretty competent. It will be interesting to hear what he does with his life. Maybe find some new activities?
Yes, a vacation by a pool to end the winter might be a good idea for you. Sorry your trip is shortened but at least you can still go.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
My mother got more and more talkative the older she got. I attributed that to her living alone but maybe it was more than that?
I used to get multiple sinus infections every winter and found that steroid sprays worked better than antibiotics. Like antibiotics if you stop them too early it all comes back (which is what I did this time). When I first started getting them 20+ years ago the steroid sprays were by prescription only but now I can get them over the counter. I used to keep them in stock at my house but since I started to go to Florida I have only had a couple of infections. One in Arizona from the dry outdoor air there in 2022 and this one which started up north with the dry heated indoor air.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
I have not been to the pool or beach in weeks! Too busy most days. Need to figure out how to slow down a bit.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
The roses are gorgeous! Hopefully Ron helped you shower yesterday. Good luck weaning onto Tylenol.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Sitting with DH while he watches the the Green Bay vs Bears game. More of the same today, planning, calling, chatting with my Dad. When I got up this morning my Dad was coming in from a walk. He's a life long walker, and used to do 5 miles every day, now he does about a mile at almost 88. He told me it did feel good to walk when he wanted to, and not worry. A little less talking, and he was busy doing lots of sweeping etc. He has been doing non stop care so he seems a little surprised about the time he has. My brother texted me what's Dad doing. At that time I said he's watching You Tube videos about making fire proof cement. Pizza Ovens for everyone! I can see he is anxious though, about when we have to leave.
DD is flying in at 2pm, so we will leave here at noon, and then we are going to stay at our house overnight. DB is going to stay overnight. Then the three of us will come back Monday. DS is coming Tuesday night.
I appreciate hearing your experiences about coping with the death of your parents.DH's parents died over 30 years ago, and we were so young the overriding feeling was utter shock. For many years, I had mostly made peace with the hurts of the past, but these last sad, chaotic, demanding years really shook that. I agree, I think I will get into that more peaceful place. It doesn't mean the hurts didn't happen, but they weren't the only part of the story.
We are going to Brazil on the 19th now, so only one week later than planned. Unfortunately, it just did not work to extend the trip. Our trip interruption insurance will pay the difference between the tickets we had to cancel, and the more expensive ones we need to buy, as long as they are the same class. There were no seats to buy later in the month in that same class, so we are keeping our original dates. It's okay, we still have 5 weeks. And maybe this will give me a better argument to go on one more warm vacation in the spring when winter is still dragging on. I'm feeling bad leaving my Dad so soon, but he says go, and my brother says he will take care of him. And I know I can't stay here in his house forever.
Today when I was standing at the sink washing some dishes, it was so pretty looking out at the lake, and I thought about how many times my Mom stood there, and now never will again. And then I thought one day, I will not be standing at this sink or any sink looking out the window too, and someone I will never know will stand in my place. And that is life. The wheel turns as it must.
So sorry to hear that the sinus infections and viruses keep boomeranging! Keep healing Peps. I think you are going to have an awesome outcome.
Glad you had fun with your friend and that the chili was good. I like cold pizza for breakfast. Have not had that in forever!
Nice that the sun is out for you again!
Greetings all
The sun is out right now even though my Apple watch says it is cloudy. It is a few hours slow I think. Why is it that I enjoy contradicting my watch? Some sort of personality disorder. It appears calm outside but there are hazardous beach warnings.
So the football game was sort of a bust as Oregon sucked. Oh well. Studio buddy brought her new iPhone and DH helped her get it set up and the old one wiped. Took 10 times more time and energy than it should have. She likes to argue about stuff as well as dive into minutia. I think it is partly her nature and partly a symptom of aging. Oh well. Chili was good and we had fun. Pizza for breakfast today.
Liz a plane was early? How does that ever happen? Enjoy DS. Sounds like you might need an antibiotic for the sinus thing. No fun. Ditto the rest of you. Cider brewery sounds like a good time.
DD we continue to think of you. So glad your DH steps up when needed. And glad for the free lance pastor. We had the same issue when my mom died and SIL got the assistant pastor from her church who was terrific. Hoping drunk person stays home. Has the "fooding " started yet? - the lovely midwestern custom of bringing casseroles to your house? A good thing. Also a good thing is that the good memories will reassert themselves big time and eventually dominate. Your dad sounds like my brother when our mom died - he just could not stop talking to the point it made it hard to plan. But it will pass and he needs it.
Peps I vote for the chair in the shower. No sense taking risks. I swear your pain will decrease when you feel cleaner. Love the roses. They seem to know when to bloom......I have a few azaleas starting.
Not much planned here. I need to wash my hair and then hit the gym. And I have mentally picked up the house about a zillion times so I need to do it actually. Since there is a ton of leftover chili I have no excuses.
Diane S



