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CC C.
on 11/21/25 7:45 pm
Topic: RE: Friday, November 21, 2025

Where did today go? Kirby went in to the vet to have a tech emptying his anal glands. It must not have felt good because he's been clingy and odd the rest of the day. The tech said both were full and needed it. Far less common in big dogs he said. I hope he feels himself tomorrow. Poor baby...

Then I had a late lunch with a family friend and her daughter who have moved to Sedona from our town in MI. The mom has always spent winters here, but now she'll be full time. The restaurant was freezing and I don't feel like I've warmed up since!

My dad is home from the hospital today. He called yesterday and said they would probably not be coming here this winter. I understand, as he likely is nervous to be far from the hospital that understands his history. Do I go there for Christmas and my birthday? Is it selfish to want to be here? Ugh. Traveling to the cold, snowy midwest through Chicago for Christmas doesn't sound fun. And Kirby would need to be boarded. Ugh. Ugh.

More rain coming this weekend and I have a hair appointment tomorrow.

Have a good night all!

diane S.
on 11/21/25 4:32 pm
Topic: RE: Friday, November 21, 2025

Greetings all

More sun today. Loving it. We are a little ahead on rainfall this year so maybe the winter won't be too nasty.

Spent some time at the studio today with studio buddy who talks non stop. I got some things made but did not make it to the gym. Things always just seem to get dragged out. Dh had lunch at the Chinese buffet and brought home some dinner so no work for me. I guess the soup will get made tomorrow. DH also got new glasses - a big deal for us old folks.

Yow Peps sounds like you rocked the house of the mouse. Rain and 16 hour days. It shows how fit you are. I would have required euthanasia after such a day. So sorry your one friend hurt her knee. Hoping she heals well.

Hmm Liz, the husband of DSD sounds like a piece of work. I hope they can get some counseling. It seems to me that if he stays home he should do house chores. At least when they visit there will be less drinking maybe.

Yep DD I too am a professional chair occupier. This afternoon it was a studio chair which is sort of like a secretarial chair but tonight it's the big giant sectional for just me plus two dogs.

Who all is cooking Thanksgiving? Not me. Just the potatoes as instructed. DH did bring home the yukon gold ones.

Our team plays tomorrow. Studio buddy wants to come over and we will see. I kind of blew off her inquiry though it is probably a good day for company.

Move in Paula? Enjoy.

Diane S


      
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Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 11/21/25 10:31 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: RE: Friday, November 21, 2025

DH used to remark that his DD seemed to be happy in their relationship even though he couldn't understand why the husband didn't do much. But again, I think he was ostriching a bit and didn't ask her because he didn't want to know. I do think she has confided in her sister and brother based on some of the comments that DSS has made. I'm sure at minimum there has been tension with her working a stressful job but him doing essentially nothing. He might cook or clean house sometimes but not often. And some of the work on their house and yard that they had discussed when they bought it a few years ago hasn't been done (except for the things that DSD finally hired someone to do like power washing the outside decks). I think it is a good thing that there seems to be some effort being put into changing.

Great job on the weight and having all that stamina. That poor woman with the bad knee :(

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 11/21/25 10:19 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: RE: Friday, November 21, 2025

He doesn't act depressed but he does seem to have some anxieties. He had a really hard time with COVID - really keeping in a bubble and washing everything fanatically. He gets really nervous about things like clothes dryers possibly catching fire.

Yes! Must put one's feet up when settling in for a long read. I put them up when on a couch and have poufs for that purpose for the living room chairs.

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

Peps
on 11/21/25 10:08 am
Topic: RE: Friday, November 21, 2025

204.5 - so up 2.1 for 4 days of fun. I can certainly live with that. While I didn't eat a lot, my choices were deliciously calorie dense!

Liz, I feel for your stepdaughter. Living with even a high functioning addict takes a toll. It sounds like there is a strong possibility of depression on the husband's side, too. Hoping for the best!

Disney was a lot of fun. I am proud that in our group of 5 I was the only one who was not sore, gimpy, or done in by the end of the day each. On Wednesday we left the hotel at 7 am and did not return until after 11 pm. I was still able to skip down the street on the way back to the hotel. LOL! Yay for the weight loss and fitness level.

On the last day, a lady in our group stepped down oddly in a queue and her knee blew. She had to get a wheel chair and then a scooter when it became available to manage to rest of the day. The up side of that is that she got preferential treatment in some of the lines and our wait times were shorter.

Monday night was WET! My new high wind velocity umbrella broke on it's first use! That's getting returned today! LOL! Even though I had a good rain coat, I did buy a rain poncho. It helped a bit, but my jeans were already damp and I felt quite cold on and off. Luckily, my waterproof trail running shoes worked fairly well. Not perfect, but they kept my feet mostly dry!

Came home with a cold, so I'm taking it easy today. Poor Ron had to run to choir practice and then teach at the church school today. I have a feeling he's going to sleep a lot this afternoon!

Paula, how's Florida? Are you in your new house yet?

DiamondD
on 11/21/25 8:07 am
VSG on 06/13/12
Topic: RE: Friday, November 21, 2025

Definetly sounds like something is happening with your stepdaughter. If he is getting help for an addiction, that could change everything. The life you describe sounds so sad, possible depression? Do you and DH like this guy otherwise? Whatever is brewing, I think your DSD is very lucky to have you as part of hr family.

Diane I love my new job description: reading and drinking tea. One of the chairs is indeed a designated reading chair with a matching ottoman so I can read with my feet up.

Yesterday I started watching The Perfect Couple on Netflix. A murder mystery in the genre of very wealthy people behaving badly, sort of like The White Lotus series. In fact, it shared some of the same actors. Anyhow, I ended up binging the whole thing. At 10:30, there was one episode left, and DH said, I have to go to bed, but you can stay up and fini**** A gift from DH and retirement. Such indulgence!

After killing so much time on the couch watching TV yesterday, I am filled with energy and ambition to tackle lots of stuff today. The sun is out, and the temp is above average for November. It's a great day to be a retiree.

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 11/21/25 3:28 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: Friday, November 21, 2025

117.4

Last day before the crowd arrives. We still have a couple of errands and some quick cleanup (vs last week's full cleaning), but we are mostly ready. DH has an itinerary written up.

I think DH's younger daughter and her husband are having some difficulties though DH doesn't want to think about that. They have been married for 7 years but the husband hasn't worked for the last 6. DSD has a great job and he has a trust fund so they are fine financially but he does nothing around the house except play on his computer and drink beer. Lots of beer. They have no children so he has little responsibility. A couple of weekends ago DSD called from the Cape House where she stayed alone that weekend though her husband was supposed to go. She was crying and told her Dad that she was just stressed out over a lot of things. Her husband called last week to tell DH that he shouldn't buy him any alcoholic beer (just 0% beer). So I am thinking that something happened and they are trying to work it out. As I said, DH would rather ostrich from it, but I told him if that is what happened it could be a good thing. The husband never looked drunk but he was consuming a huge amount of beer daily (we saw all the empty cans). Hopefully they will work it out.

Nice night out with new friends we have met in the community. Tonight we may go to Happy Hour for a bit but we are eating leftovers at home. But before that there is the Justice walk, yoga, then the remaining errands. Have a fantasy Friday!

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 11/21/25 3:17 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: RE: Thursday, November 20, 2025

I put area rugs over the tile floors. Softens the room and softer on the feet. Also good to define separate spaces like dining room and living room which are in the same larger spaces. And we wear flip flops most of the time vs being barefoot.

Last year we slept at the hotel across the street because we thought DH's grandson would use the sleep sofa. DH's ex-wife was supposed to use the hotel room but she had a lot of knee issues last year (still does) so her daughters were worried about her being alone. The final night of their stay we slept on the sleep sofa (because the grandson ended up using a blow-up bed in the same room with his mother and sister). We were quite comfortable so decided to just do that all week this year since it is really easy to open and close this one. The ex-wife won't be here so the grandson can be in the room she used instead of sleeping on a blow-up mattress on the floor.

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 11/21/25 3:07 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: RE: Thursday, November 20, 2025

I love good mashed potatoes. I don't even mind the lumps if the potatoes taste good.

LOL on "occupation is reading and tea drinking". A good description of retirement!

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 11/21/25 3:04 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: RE: Thursday, November 20, 2025

The woman we had dinner with on Wednesday night told me about them. She was going to one near them when they lived in West Palm Beach. She said it was like a bar that served alcohol except that it was this Kava that they served. Everyone gets super friendly after imbibing it at these places. Apparently among some groups it is all the rage. I had never heard of it! Don't know if I would want to try it as it sounds like a rather disgusting tasting drink.

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

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