Thursday, November 14, 2024

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Fun time at the birthday party after a terrible last fall bocce match. We lost both games 10-0. We need to do some practicing before the winter season starts!

Today I have a golf class in the morning followed by lunch at the clubhouse with the ladies golf group we will probably join when done. We have a fancy wine dinner tonight. Lots going on around here, though not much planned for the weekend so I think that is when we will clean the house. Next week starts the incredibly busy holiday season.

Have a thready Thursday!

220. Exactly 100 more than Liz. LOL! Sorry about your poor showing at Bocce! Your team needs to step it up!

Not much to report since yesterday. I am in need of another organizational list. I need to find a way to make the lists not seem overwhelming. Maybe a long term list and a short term list??? Also, I've been stressing about money lately. Not sure why, unless it's from dipping into my savings for the two new cars this year. That does make sense....

I decided to sneak in an extra workout yesterday. Going to the "big" gym, rather than my trainer's garage gym gave me the opportunity to see myself in the mirrored walls. I was actually pleased by my reflection. I still have a way to go, but I definitely have a V shape and muscle definition. Not shabby for a 60 year old. Once under 200 pounds I'll have to evaluate how much more, if any, I want to lose.

Yesterday I struggled a little with food choices. I had plenty of protein, but most of it during the day was processed protein. My "drive to eat" is less when I eat whole proteins from meats, rather than from protein bars, and Fairlife shakes.

That's pretty much it from me today....

I have stressed about money my entire adult life. I started out as a teenage Mom, took on loans for college/grad school, then went quickly from buying a house and adopting 2 children to sending our 2 oldest to college. So even though life has certainly gotten easier and my last years of working were productive (after all the kids had finished college), I still worry. I was scared to death that my deceased husband's illness would leave me destitute which luckily was not the case. I now worry that if I'm not careful, the unexpected will come (like another long-term illness to finance) and there won't be enough. Probably not likely and there would be ways to deal with it but I think the worry is ingrained. DH is just like me in worrying because he came from a working class family where his parents both worked like crazy so he has always felt he had to be very careful. We see people here buy 2 million dollar houses on a whim and buy incredible cars like corvettes without blinking an eye and we wonder if we are the least well-off people here. I don't actually think that is the case, but I think our conservatism with money makes us feel like that. Keeps us from having much in liabilities for sure!

151.0, up just over a pound for absolutely no reason except for better hydration! Today was the first day splitting my dose. We shall see how that goes.

Woman?s Bible study was very good this morning. Didn?t go over our assigned passages much but Gof had other things planned for us. Many heavy hearts for various reasons and it was good to be able to support each other.

Cold, wet dreary day! Perfect for a little nap with DH which was needed as both of us were up in the middle of the night! He is such a nice warm furnace for me in the winter!

Going out to dinner with friends tonight. Nothing fancy, just a burger place where I?ll probably get the southwest chicken salad or the burger bowl (essentially a deconstructed burger with no bun).

Lots of laundry today. All the skinnier clothes I brought up from the basement smelled musty. Feels good to be in the smaller clothes. I don?t think I even care if I don?t get into the size 2 clothes again! Time will tell!

I hear ya Peps and Liz about money worries. Ben was a great planner, investor, and saver. Kevin, not so much! I tend to be a spender too but never beyond my means. Retirement has so many unknowns (like Liz mentioned, possible long term health problems) that it is bound to induce a little anxiety. I?m actually feeling better about things since we decided not to buy in Florida, even though losing that dream still saddens me! Ben and I had planned on retiring on Maui, I honestly don?t think that would have happened either! Looking forward to vacation there in January and then seeking out where we might snowbird in 2026!

I started doing a split dose today too - are you going to take the other half in 3 days or 4?

I would think staying put would gave you more ease in traveling. If my family lived near me in a warmer climate I think I would prefer to have one home as a base and just travel but I don't like being in Massachusetts (where my family is) in the winter.

I have been busy busy the last few days, and now I'm trying to remember what everyone has posted since Tuesday so I can respond to it.

First, Peps -- your pix on FB sure don't look like you weigh 220! I'm well aware of how different people who seriously lift and bodybuild get to weigh a lot more than mere mortals. Still, your silhouette is really good! I'm sorry to hear about your auntie's passing. Your post made me realize that at 3 weeks away from 79 I am the oldest person in our immediate family, so they better start kowtowing pretty damn soon. Of course, all my aunts and uncles on both my mother's and father's sides are aLos gone. As far as I know, I have only one older surviving first cousin (on my father's side, who was one of 10 children, so there used to be dozens of cousins older than me. Damn, I hadn't realized all that until reading your post.

Paula, well done on the new Bosch dishwasher. I replaced both of mine here in MO recently (both KitchenAid) and they're working just fine. But I'm looking forward to using our new Bos*****Y.

Diane S, I'm sorry your visitors are missing all that Northern California and PNW gloriousness. You really do live in one of the world's most beautiful stretches. Your daily posts sometimes make me sad that I no longer live in California.

Liz, I do understand and appreciate completely your focus on getting good value for your bucks. Me, too. I grew up poor (and didn't know it, as the saying goes), but because I had many other kinds of privilege (smart, enjoyed work, wonderful bosses, crazy good fortune, etc.) I've become financially comfortable beyond anything I would have predicted even at age 40. Having said that, I am incredibly aware that, as nice as financial success is, it's not what rings my bell.

Related to that last paragraph, I'm still plowing through all my life's mementos and have discovered that it's not photos that I treasure, but the things that I and others have written that bring me to tears of joy. For decades I wrote a lot--both autobiographical and fiction, essays, short stories, poetry, novellas, and so many letters to my parents, all of which my mother kept. Reading all of it has allowed me to relive my life pretty vividly. I'm rediscovering entire eras that I'd forgotten so many details about. It's delightful to read about backpacking trips in the Sierras in my 20s, my weeks and weekends being single in L.A. in my 30s, what the honeymoon years with my dear husband were like, leaving comfy, rewarding employment and starting a consulting practice, and so many more eras. We all live so many lives during our "one life," but often forget our previous lives while we're struggling to succeed in the next era that demands our full attention.

I can tell I'm getting down to the last dregs of decluttering. It feels good, like I'm emotionally exhaling. Yay!

How lucky that you can read to relive your memories! I never wrote much other than for work (or here of late LOL). I was able to remember so many good times through my photograph sorting though.