Getting asked out lol

 Well it is happening to me.  I have been asked out on dates or just for coffee. Sounds great. But the 5 people that have asked me out are all women on my FB. I have been chatting with the Lady's for oh like 5 years now. I had no idea they liked women and even if I did that is OK to me.

I just do not date women and I am married which is strange they know I am married. I have  not been asked out by one man yet lol. I wonder if this is happening to others or will others even tell me this has happened. I was just not prepared for this never even entered my mind. I know how to tell a man no but the women asking just shocked me.

 Oh boy! That seems odd too me.  good luck and I hope it doesn't happen to me...

Maybe they just want to have coffee with you.  Lots of women look for friends.

 They say coffee along with they would like to go on a date after the coffee if it goes well. So I am taking that as we will see what happens after the coffee.

I  can't say this has happened to me either (also a women happily married to a man), but I guess, I would be flattered and handle it the same way that I have handled a man making the move on me. If they know I'm married, then "what are you thinking, you know I'm married", or if they don't "I appreciate the offer, but I'm happily married".  

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 Trish thank you so much you have helped me so much.I have never been asked out before by a woman so was shocked. I am also shocked at how open women really are. Like when i was at the gym the other day changing I took off my top and i had my tummy tuck so I have a big scar in the middle of my chest and a lady turns around and tells me wow so sorry you had open heart surgery.

I told her no I had a tummy tuck not open heart lol. She was shocked she said no way the way you look I would have never guessed you to ever be over weight. I said well i was and I am still over weight according to the BMi chart. When I was 300 lbs no one talked to me unless you knew me now that I have lost weight it seems they just talk away. I think I am crazy is it that i never wanted them to talk to me so I was unapproachable or is it that I feel better about my self and look like I love to chat who knows lol. Well thanks again.