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Do you like it when people call you skinny?

diane S.
on 9/18/11 4:11 am
Well I like it when people call me skinny. Its because I never heard that in my entire life and got called tubby plenty of times. And I know people mean it as a complement. While I would rather they just said "you look great" or " you look so young" (which they sometimes do) I am happy with the skinny complement.

Many years ago being called skinny was not a complement because more curvacious women were considered attractive and being thing was a sign of poverty. But times have change and they say you can't be to thin (we know thats not true). But I still especially enjoy seeing people that haven't seen me in a couple of years and love their reaction. And I am grateful that they remark on that rather than other changes such as saggy skin and more grey hair.

So what the heck. I don't get wolf whistles or hit on by men or leered at, all I guess because I am a little long in the tooth but I feel like I am 30 again and I can go in any store and pass by all the "X" racks. Interestingly, it seems like there are more and more of those and its harder to dig through all the stacks of jeans to find the smaller sizes (yay). Used to be I could never find anything big enough that wasn't super ugly.

So no I don't mind being called skinny. Its a complement and I'll take it.  Just hoping I can stay this way.     Diane

      
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BuckeyeGirl
on 9/18/11 7:45 am - TN
Hmmm...I'll let you know how I feel as soon as people start calling me skinny. ;)

I do dislike when my patients comment on my weight loss. Some of my patients mistake our appointments as a social call and think we are best friends. The majority of them are well-meaning and I understand the intent of their comments or questions is not malicious, but I do wish I could remove my gender, age, weight, race, etc. when I am a healthcare provider and focus only on the task at hand.

...maybe I could start dressing as a robot in the clinic...

Lindsey

  

    
Ms Shell
on 9/18/11 7:48 am - Hawthorne, CA
As long as it's followed by the word *****

Other things I like and hear often.  

Did you know I can sit a drink on your ass?
How'd you fit ALL that into that skirt?
Do fries come with that shake?
Can you sit on my face?
Can I just put the head in?

Ok I've gone to far now, lol!!  But I have heard it ALL!!  And big or little I LOVE it, lol.

Ms Shell

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

Still Fawn
on 9/18/11 8:17 am - SIERRA MADRE, CA
Shell, you made me laugh so hard I had to shape drew the iPad.. He thought I was losing it! Ha ha ha!

 I am still loving life with my sleeve! Been maintaining at or below goal for over 4 years!
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."   - Ramona L. Anderson

Ms Shell
on 9/19/11 5:46 am - Hawthorne, CA
ROFL yeah I got a kick outta typing it!!!

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

(deactivated member)
on 9/19/11 6:01 am - Newnan, GA
VSG on 05/04/09 with

Moustache Rides!! yaaay

Funny you!

laurak712
on 9/18/11 8:03 am - New Braunfels, TX
Okay well, I guess I won't call you beautiful either!, LOL.  No it does not bother me when people call me skinny only when they call me ***** : )

Laura



Height 5' 7

    

moparmemaw
on 9/18/11 9:22 am - IA
It makes me a little uncomfortable too.  I realize people are only trying to offer a compliment, but #1)  I am NOT skinny.  #2) I don't plan to get skinny!

Wanda
Some people might not support my WLS decision. 
Those people remind me of slinkys. Not good for much but it would would bring a smile to my face if someone pushed them down the stairs.
       

                                           

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michellemj
on 9/18/11 9:24 am
I'm sure this will come as no surprise to you my friend...but I do NOT like it. One: it isn't true. and two: in general, I don't want to be noticed for something physical...be it my overall lack o' weight, my (fomally) big boobies (well, I suppose they are still big, but just LESS big), etc.

and yes, now, people generally mean that I shouldn't look this way, even though I'm not even close to normal weight.

Bleck.

Do NOT like.

HW: 280; SW: 255; GW1: 150; CW: 155.

MikeyMike
on 9/18/11 9:29 am - New York, NY
Don't like the use of that particular word. I don't feel that it is a compliment. To me it has the same underlying meaning as if someone were to call me fat.

On the other hand I do like the compliments. I love walking down the street and feeling that I was checked out. These things didn't happen before. I guess I love the attention.  


   Highest Weight: 380                      Consult Weight: 357             Surgery Weight: 309 
Goal Weight: 220 (9/29/10)      Revised Goal Range 215-220         Current Weight: 224
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