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Saw my brother for the first time Postop

Southernsleever
on 6/5/11 5:08 am

To give you background my brother and I haven't been really close in a long time. I moved out of the house when I was 17 and left him in a chaotic home enviroment, he was 13. We got closer when he moved in with me when he was 15 and then fell away again. His wife and I had a fight the week after I got back from surgery about her posting family drama on facebook so I haven't seen him in a long time. I know my brother loves me but I think he's always been ashamed of my weight. Though he's never actually said anything negative :(  Yesterday I took my kids over to his house to play in the pool. When he walked out of the house he just kept saying, "Wow Sis you are beautiful!" He said, "You were beautiful before but wow!" and it wasn't in the overthe top way some people say it. I believe that's the first time he's ever said I was beautiful. My best NSV so far.

 

5'6" Start-276 Goal-150  Weight loss   Preop=5  Month 1=25  Month 2=10  Month 3=14  Month 4=3 Month 5=7  Month 6=9 Month 7=7 Month 8=Month 9=9 Month 10=7 Month 11=5 Month 12=5 Month 13=3 Month 14=4    

 

moparmemaw
on 6/5/11 7:09 am - IA
Oh that makes me happy for you!  I hope you and your brother mend your hearts and stay close.  Family is so important.  And breaking the cycle of the chaotic home environment in which you grew up will only help you and your children.
Wanda
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Those people remind me of slinkys. Not good for much but it would would bring a smile to my face if someone pushed them down the stairs.
       

                                           

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frisco
on 6/5/11 8:02 am
 
Wow !!!

Congrats!

Great Story!

More NSV's to come!

Oh.....Another bad story about Facebook.... I don't play FB....I like rollin....low......

frisco

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on 6/5/11 10:52 am
I am glad you and your brother are getting a bit closer.  It is great when family celebrates our achievements.  It really sounds like a beautiful NSV.  So happy for you, many more to come.
jimbovsg
on 6/5/11 10:57 am
That's great! I hope your relationship continues to grow.  Nice when family..."has your back"

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on 6/5/11 7:02 pm - Newnan, GA
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Yaay!!  That's a really cool thing, girlie. 
(deactivated member)
on 6/6/11 12:54 am
Thanks for sharing.  Brother's are so special, I'm so glad you and your brother are on the mend....what a fabulous NSV!
diane S.
on 6/6/11 9:55 am
This is so nice. Glad to hear it. My older brother is about to get sleeved and we are talking a lot these days. Pretty nice since we fought non-stop as kids. 

Heres hoping you and brother can get closer. As we get older its so important to have people who share our past to move through the future with.  Diane

      
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Mandyplus2 ..
on 6/6/11 10:18 am - GA
That is so sweet. I know that is the best feeling in the world!
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