VSG Maintenance Group
Losing Relationships
I havent really lost anyone either, but i think not all of it can be blamed on the other person, it comes from both sides as we lose weight we change too, we dont go out to eat junk food as often, it can take months before some people even really got out to eat because of the amounts they eat, sometimes we are so foccossed on weightloss that we can talk about it alot, this can make others feel uncomfortable if they have a problem with weight, so i think it can be a mixture of things.. I think if they are true friends they will be happy for you and wish you well..
6lbs under goal weight
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I dont have to be around anyone who emotionally abuses me. it is getting worse as I lose weight and we are not together anymore for a year and a half. He calls me and takes me to the stores on weekends. that is not a relationship.... I thought our communication would get better... but NO it hasnt... not even as friends.
He left me a year and a half ago because my son moved in ( whos father has passed away)
He calls me names etc. I have changed your right and my part is why do I keep hanging out even as a friend with the MOFO. My record shows that I am friends with ALL my X`s. this one is going to be the first...i just know it. He is unhealthy for me and I continue to hang on as a friend.
There is something still wrong with me in doing so.
He lost me and doesnt know how to express himself and by not doing so...I have gone!!!
the only reason why I hang out once in awhile is because he helps me with a few things.
I have to find other sources. He needs to move on and have kids or something like he tells me all the time he wants a younger girl and wants kids... SO FREAKIN GO ALREADY
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"Keeping The Faith!" "Slim by Summer!"
HW: 250 - SW: 241 - CW: 154.7- GW: 140
1 month: 22 pounds (216) 2 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8) 3 months: 10.6 (193.2)
4 months: 9.7 lbs (183.5) 5 Months: 6 pounds (177.5 ) 6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!! 2.6 pounds (148.4)
Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011 (199.7)
"Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)
"Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011 (189.6)
"Groovyland 70`s" June 20th 2011 (179.9)
" HippyDippyland 60's" July 16th (169.8)
" CQQL-land 50`s" August 25th ( 159.8)
"Normal BMI" 24.8 October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6
"AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011 (149)
"Century Club 100 Pounds" Dec 1st 2011 (149)
' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"
Two Year Surgiversary!!!"
I'm 5'2" and 55 years old. VSG 3/17/10
