VSG Maintenance Group
I just realized I was doing fine ...
A month or so ago, I started freaking that my diet was too junk-foody and TOO MANY CRACKERS!! Started trying to clean it up. Stopped the morning cokes and switched to tea. Stopped the fast food. Started fooling with breakfast so it wasn't so sugary. Stopped buying my favorite crackers. Stopped the odd candy bar I was having along the way.
And then the bingeing started. I don't know why I can't remember that every time I try to restrict, I start to binge. I JUST WISH I WOULD HAVE LEFT WELL ENOUGH ALONE!!!!
Dang!
--Dorothy
Highest weight: 292 Pre-op weight: 265 Goal met: 150 Six years out: 185 and trying to lose again!
This is one of the reasons I continue to post that everyone does NOT have to live by the low fat, low calorie, super low carb diets that some of the surgeons and programs push.
For some of us that is not what will work best in the long run. I think we all need to know ourselves, our bodies, our long term habits and indiviudual "quirks" and work within those parameters.
our appetites and hungers are not just some formula with grams of this and ounces of that. we eat for social and emotional reasons, too.
bingeing is the result of deprivation. I NEVER binged until after I started "dieting".
once upon a time I had a group to talk about Binge Eating Disorder, and later one about Clean Eating.
PM me if you are interested in either of these.
size 8, life is great
--Dorothy
Highest weight: 292 Pre-op weight: 265 Goal met: 150 Six years out: 185 and trying to lose again!
for some reason I don't like her more recent books as much.
she writes about trusting yourself which is very hard, no matter what your size or if you are pre-op or post-op or at goal.
but it's worth looking into!
once upon a time I had a group to talk about Binge Eating Disorder, and later one about Clean Eating.
PM me if you are interested in either of these.
size 8, life is great
Interesting about trusting oneself. I'll think, oh lovely, I've found something that works for me. Then my eating disorders counselor sez "Don't drink Cokes; I had one wls client who gained every bit of her weight back just from drinking Cokes." Then I read a book about eating according to Biblical principles. Then I watched some episodes of You Are What You Eat. All of a sudden EEEEKKK!!! I'm eating garbage! I must stop!
And now I have gained 15 pounds. Toot.
--Dorothy
Highest weight: 292 Pre-op weight: 265 Goal met: 150 Six years out: 185 and trying to lose again!
sometimes I read posts where folks make it seem like there is an easy forumla. calories in, calories out.
bull**** is what I say. your body needs some comfort & Joy.
it is NOT so freakin simple, it just isn't. go to the library and find an old Geneen Roth book and re-read.
couldn't hurt!
once upon a time I had a group to talk about Binge Eating Disorder, and later one about Clean Eating.
PM me if you are interested in either of these.
size 8, life is great