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Please congratulate Josh on a wonderfull journey and for sharing his story so as to inspire others to do the same ,
He is a true Success !! I am very proud of him and know he has worked hard to be where he is today .
Please go to www.vawlsevents.com to view his story and share his pictures .
If you know someone who has a story to share , please feel free to email me at
[email protected] or you can PM me here at OH .
Many thanks,
Natalie Blaum
Director of Virginia Weight Loss Events - MENTORING AND SUPPORT GROUPS.
Proud Obesity Help Bariatric Life Coach
Proud Obesity Help Support Group Leader
Fighting Daily the Disease We Call Obesity !
www.obesityhelp.com/group/LifeStartsWLS08
www.vawlsevents.com
Helping Others Find Their Way to a Life They Deserve!
For those of you who may remember I have been dealing with an infection and for the past two weeks I have been bleeding during bowel movements and throwing up. I feel as though I'm eating to throw up. I've been using a handy dandy calorie counter and discovered I'm only consuming between 250 - 350 calories (provided I haven't thrown up) in a day. Apparently i am supposed to be up in the range of 600 - 800 a day.
The pain still has not subsided and I have been seriously struggling with buyer's remorse as I negotiate my care with a medical team that fails to communicate effectively with each other and has not quite worked out the kinks of teamwork. In saying this, I have remained surprisingly upbeat and my spirits are high.
So here's the low-down, the surgeon has discovered a "lump" at the incision site that I have been complaining about for almost 6 weeks. I am now being sent for a CT scan for this. After eliminating fissures (sp?) and hemmroids as a possibility (seriously, every time I go to the hospital now my bum is violated =)~ I think I may be getting a complex) I am now being scheduled for an upper GI and a colonoscopy which will occur at the same time and I will thankfully be knocked out for. Hopefully this will identify what the issues are which can then be treated (please Universe let this be an easy fix!)
In the meantime I have had bloodwork done and meds have been issued. They are looking at a whole bunch of stuff including my iron and B12 levels. My saving grace, so far, is that I have been taking all of my vitamins and supplements and this will apparently "buy me some time" until the drs can figure out what is going on with me and fix it. How much time is still undetermined.
Oh and apparently an investigation is now being done into the care I have received thus far and the politics that seem to have been a constant obstacle to my receiving quality care. I have embraced my "difficult" patient status and demanded that my medical team work with me in a partnership, rather than shuffling responsibilities and leaving me in the abyss to figure things out. Oh and the great news - looks like I am diabetes free! Although I must say I'm finding it a little difficult to fully comprehend and embrace this fact at the moment.
So this is my little update.
Take care,
Michelle
WOW .. you sure have had your share of issues. It looks like though you are getting answers .
A little story for you . While I was away on vacation this past 2 weeks .. guess what .. I had a kidney stone ... I was admitted to the Boca Raton Community Hospital in Boca Florida . This is where our summer home is ... I do not have a PCP down there .. just never needed one . Long story short . Because of a car accident almost 4 years ago ... I came with in a nats hair of breaking my back . I am currently and will probably always be Narcotic dependent. So as the nurse was asking me for my medical history and my list of meds, I got to the 30 mg of Oxycodone I take daily . ... Her eyes got real big and she said .. I am sorry but we will not be administering you that much pain meds here ... We only give those to dieing patients with cancer or severely injured people ...
I looked at her and said ... " You will give me my meds .. I have Addisons disease , and a back that has more cracks and crushed disc than carter has liver pills ... " She said unless my pain managment doctor called them , or I could show them my pills , they would not give me what I needed . SO I had to get my husband to go home , get my pill bottle . He brought it back to them , and for some reason .. a Hospilist still refused to give me my Oxy ... I went on to explain that with out it I would go into Detox and could die . I finally had to call the Patient Advocates office ... and they rushed to my bedside . I showed her my bottle , I showed her my scripts ... and after me missing 4 rounds of meds .. they finally gave me my meds. It was sad to see that I had to go to these lenghts. I understand that many people abuse narcotics , However , I am dependent on them ... and will always need something to east this pain . I not only have the bad back , but with the Addisons , I take steroids everyday .. and the steroids cause me to joint pain so severe that there are times I cannot walk , this trip we just got back from was spent being wheeled in a wheel chair . This is something I rarely share with people . But sometimes honesty helps others . I am not ashamed of taking these meds .,I truly need these and am followed close by the greatest pain management team ever .
You must speak up for yourself and your medical care . If you don;t who will ? I could have laid there and went into shock and died from the detox ,
Keep those spirits high , stay positive , know that I will be praying for you . Asking for the most powerful of angels to watch over you ,
Please keep us posted on your status ... and know we are all here for you if you need us ,
Much love and respect ,
Tink
Proud Obesity Help Bariatric Life Coach
Proud Obesity Help Support Group Leader
Fighting Daily the Disease We Call Obesity !
www.obesityhelp.com/group/LifeStartsWLS08
www.vawlsevents.com
Helping Others Find Their Way to a Life They Deserve!
Hugs~
Annie
great ideas for better sleep.
http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/motivation_articles.asp?id=901
Do you struggle with sleep? What have you found that helps?
Hugs~
Annie
25 Ways to Get Back on Track Today
Don't Give Up on Your Goals!
-- By Nicole Nichols, Fitness Instructor & Health Educator
SparkPeople advertisers help keep the site free! Learn more Not long ago, you were energetic and determined to start your healthy lifestyle. Starting with enthusiasm and hope, you watched your food intake diligently, exercised like it was going out of style, and even avoided the temptation that seemed to lurk around every corner. You were confident that you were going to reach your goals once and for all!Then certain tragedy struck! You ate an extra piece of birthday cake. Realizing you had “blown" your diet, you ate another and another and couldn’t get it together the next day either. Or worse, you missed one workout, and that turned into a whole week away from the gym. After that, your momentum to start over again was gone, and your gym bag hasn’t left the closet since.
Every time you misstep on your healthy journey, you have two choices: to keep walking backwards, which will surely take you even further away from your goals; or to accept your lack of perfection as normal and forgivable, and take not one, but two positive steps down the path that brings your closer to the future you want.
If you’re reading this, you might have been walking backwards for a while. But instead of waiting for the next day, week, month or even year to overhaul your habits, start TODAY. And start small. You can’t go from the recliner to running or from burgers to Brussels sprouts in an afternoon. But you can do one, two or even a handful of small things that will help you regain your momentum for healthy living.
When you feel like getting back on track is overwhelming, try one (or more) of these small steps each day.
1. Try a short workout. Even five minutes is better than nothing. For ideas browse our video library or workout generator.
2. Try a new recipe. Cooking healthy foods can be fun and it never has to be bland.
3. Eat a healthy breakfast. Your morning meal sets the stage for the rest of your day, so start if off right! Get lots of breakfast ideas here.
4. Drink your water. Try to aim for 8 cups each day and you’ll feel the difference!
5. Look at Motivational SparkPages. Seeing how others overcome similar struggles and obstacles can be a great source of motivation.
6. Track your food today. No matter how it adds up, you’ll learn from it.
7. Update your SparkPage. It’s a visual way to track your ups and downs, but also your progress.
8. Share your goals. Whether you post them on the Message Boards or share them with a friend, you’ll be more accountable.
9. Exercise for 10 minutes. Jump rope, march in place, or do some crunches. Small amounts do add up to something big!
10. Find a buddy. Get support from friends, whether you need someone to listen or a mentor to give you ideas and encouragement.
11. Take a walk. Don’t worry about how long or far you go—just get out there!
12. Create a motivational collage. Include pictures of your goal and reasons why you want to get there.
13. Go shopping for some healthy foods. Use this shopping list for ideas.
14. Check the nutrition facts before you go out to eat. That way, you can make an informed choice.
15. Ride your bike. Even a leisurely ride has benefits for your body and mind.
16. Work in the yard. Gardening and yard work is a great way to add activity to your day.
17. Take the stairs. Even if this is the only thing you do all day, you’ll feel stronger for it.
18. Rack up those SparkPoints! You earn them for every healthy task you do on the site—talk about motivating! Aim for a certain milestone, such as 100 points, and then reward yourself with a SparkGoodie!
19. Listen to an inspirational song. Better yet, make a playlist of them so you can turn to it whenever you need a boost.
20. Re-start your SparkPeople program. Sometimes it’s easier to get back on track when you have a clean slate.
21. Measure your portions. It’s a simple way to learn how much you’re eating.
22. Eat a piece of fruit. Even if 5-9 servings of fruit and vegetables sounds impossible to you, one is doable.
23. Slow down during meals. You’ll be less likely to overeat and more likely to enjoy your meal.
24. Play! What kids call “play," we often call “exercise." Play a sport, a game, or use the playground equipment to bring the fun back into fitness.
25. Learn something new. Sometimes simply taking a quiz or reading an article about nutrition, fitness, or health can change your mindset and get you back on track.
In tennis, losing one point isn’t the end of the world. It happens to the best of them. In fact, if you can consistently win a few more points that you lose, you may end up in the hall of fame. With healthy eating and exercising, as long as you’re consistently out-stepping your steps back, you’re ahead of the game. If you expect perfection (and many of us do), you’re setting yourself up for disappointment and guilt.
You CAN get back on track today. Even if you’re moving slowly, you’ll be moving in the right direction!
Proud Obesity Help Bariatric Life Coach
Proud Obesity Help Support Group Leader
Fighting Daily the Disease We Call Obesity !
www.obesityhelp.com/group/LifeStartsWLS08
www.vawlsevents.com
Helping Others Find Their Way to a Life They Deserve!
I'm so sorry you are having all these struggles. Please keep us posted with any updates. When is your colonoscopy & EGD? Are you able to drink or eat anything?
Congratulations on being diabetes free. It is an amazing thing to go from having diabetes to being free of it. My last A1C was 5.3, 7 months after RNY.
Do you have good support? Are you taking good care of yourself?
Hugs~
Annie
I love the video. Thanks for sharing it with us. What a wonderful
Wow moment and now a memory.
So glad you are home and back to us.
Hugs
Annie