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Hello, I'm Shelley

shelleyq
on 9/30/11 11:35 pm
Hello, I'm Shelley.

I am from Ontario Canada.  I had WLS in 2000.  I lost 135lbs.  I felt for the first time, at peace with food.  I attended a local support group and attended therapy.  When I was about 155-60 lbs, I started the night shift and also had a lot of very high stressful events happening in my life.  I started to not be able to hold food down and turned to crackers and milk or plain tortillas and milk to settle my stomach.  I started vomiting a lot.  I went to my surgeon who said there was nothing he could do to help.  Even though I was vomiting several times daily, I started to regain my weight.  The harder I tried to eat healthfully, the quicker the weight came back on and the angrier I became.  I regained about 100lbs.

I have tried many ways to get back on track.   I have had limited success and slow weight loss with those periods.  Even eating correctly for 6-9 months, the weight loss was very slow.  It seemed that I would be eating healthfully and some major stress would happen and no matter how hard I tried to deal with it myself, with help from others and asking God, I would slip back into my old ways.  At times I have felt like giving up.  But each day I have gotten up and said, I will try again today only to have my willingness slip out the window at some point in the day.

Recently, I had another very traumatic event but instead of drowning in excess food, I prayed even more feverently to have God help me take care of myself.  I thought, "God, there must be a group somewhere of others who have had WLS and have regained the weight back or maintained it and we can support eachother.

Earlier in the week, I found out about the obesity help website through a friend of a friend.  Here I found the Life Starts WLS group.  I also got a call from a family member who is trying to eat healthfully and needed some support so we decided to support each other.

I am beginning my 4th day of eating healthfully.  I can't tell you what a gift it is.  Next October is our 10th anniversary for my husband and I.  My goal is to fit into that wedding dress.  I know that I have a good chance to fit into it if I stick to my healthy eating plan every day.

Thank you for letting me join your group.

Today, I thank God for this beautiful body and all the creations of this earth, for the blessings I am given and reminding myself that I will honour God and His creations and myself by consuming only enough to sustain life.

    
SWEET Tink
on 10/3/11 9:43 pm
Welcome Shelley .... I replied to your email . I so look forward to getting to know you and to assist you any way that I can . 

You can do this .. just keep your eye on the prize .. and that is a healther YOU !


Love and blessings,

Tink

Proud Obesity Help Bariatric Life Coach
Proud Obesity Help Support Group Leader
Fighting Daily the Disease We Call Obesity !
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Helping Others Find Their Way to a Life They Deserve!



    
shelleyq
on 10/4/11 1:20 am
Thank you Tink!


Today, I thank God for this beautiful body and all the creations of this earth, for the blessings I am given and reminding myself that I will honour God and His creations and myself by consuming only enough to sustain life.

    
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