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What are your absolutes? Please share.

Molly S.
on 11/5/10 4:44 am - Chicago, IL
Weight Loss Surgery Support: Daily Inspiration for November 5, 2010 Katie Jay, MSW

 

Have some absolutes.

 

 

The trouble with having an overeating problem is you can't swear off food completely. You have to eat. In addition, you are around all kinds of food all the time. It's hard to resist. While there are plenty of gray areas when it comes to the WLS lifestyle, you can have some absolutes.

 

To give yourself some freedom over uncertainty, consider selecting a few foods or behaviors to which you will apply absolute rules. Be absolute about not eating refined sweets and carbohydrates, for example. Or, never drink soda. Or, walk every day.

 

Action for the day: Pick one thing you can be absolute about that will benefit your health. Write a contract with yourself (and be sure to sign it) stating what you will always (or never) do in support of your WLS goals.

 

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Molly S.
on 11/5/10 4:49 am, edited 11/5/10 5:50 am - Chicago, IL
Mines is I absolutely do intentional exercise  a minimum of 5 days a week and 45 min to 60 minutes per day. 
 
Please share yours with me.  I need some more absolutes I know and I am just interested in knowing what is one or some of your absolutes since you had your surgery.   
I am working on making fried foods an absolute NO-NO also.

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rykar
on 11/5/10 11:36 pm
Glad to hear you mention this one.  I have an absolute and some people make me feel foolish about it - like it's unattainable.  My absolute is that I will not eat refined carbohydrates and sugary sweets.  I know it would be fatal for me, but other people think I'm being short sighted, that it's not possible to "never" have sugary sweets again.  

Someone gave me the 12 stages of  WLS from NAWLS.  Even in there it talks about 'testing' your boundaries, relapsing, and gaining weight.  I don't believe that relapse is inevitable and  everyone can't come back from a relapse.  I don't want to know if I can eat sugar and not dump or if I can come back from a relapse.  Never thought about making a contract with myself, but I will write one now. 

Thanks for bringing this up.

Jazzy J.
on 11/8/10 12:50 am, edited 11/8/10 8:55 pm - NY
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I love this one Molly,

I will absolutely exercise minimum 4days a week, my goal is 5 days .

I only have my favorite ice cream once a month, that way I don't feel deprived and so it is no longer this "forbidden"  bad food.



Jazzy
Molly S.
on 11/19/10 8:39 am - Chicago, IL
I have fried chicken once a month also. 

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Annie M.
on 11/8/10 10:44 pm - Monument, CO
This is simple yet profound . I will decide today what my abolutes are. Right off the top of my head I know a few of mine are-  don't drink while eating,  take my vitamins, drink 80 oz of  water, have accountability. I know one I need to adopt is for exercise.
Thanks Molly for posting.
Hugs~
Annie

Molly S.
on 11/19/10 8:34 am - Chicago, IL
Good for you Annie!!
twinklinglake
on 11/19/10 9:44 pm - Chisago City, MN
This is a great idea.  All the new lifestyle rules can seem overwhelming.  By committing to a few and making them an absolute I will focus on a few at a time and be more successful.  I'm so early in the process that for now mine will be getting in my water, taking my vitamins and 30 minutes of walking 5 days a week.  When I master these, I'll choose three more. 
Molly S.
on 11/19/10 10:09 pm - Chicago, IL
That sounds wonderful babe!  Congrats on the beginning of your new life!!  KIT

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