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Let your adult self take charge.

Molly S.
on 11/3/10 7:07 am, edited 11/3/10 11:14 am - Chicago, IL
Weight Loss Surgery Support: Daily Inspiration for October 25, 2010
Katie Jay, MSW

Let your adult self take charge.
Who are you going to bring with you as you move from holiday event to holiday event in the coming months? Are you going to bring the little child inside who hates being deprived? Or, are you bringing with you the satisfied and goal-oriented adult who will take care of your true needs?

When your inner child is in charge, you are more at risk for making unhealthy choices. The inner child may be rebellious, choosing to eat the things that are "forbidden." Your inner adult is better at delaying gratification and thinking through the consequences of a choice. When you are going into a challenging situation, your adult self will be your best friend. That part of you will say, "no," and will guide you onto an exciting new path of success.

Action for the day: Pay attention to the voices inside your head that help you make choices as you go through your day. Identify your inner child's influence, acknowledge it, and then gently allow your inner adult to have the final say. 
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Eat at least three meals a day.

 

It's surprising how many weight loss surgery patients skip meals, thinking they are doing themselves a favor. But, skipping meals can actually lead to weight gain. (Did you know sumo wrestlers are told to skip breakfast to help them gain weight?)

Skipping a meal can also lead to excessive hunger and poor food choices later on, which leads to overeating.

 

Action for the day: Eat three meals today, and have a protein-based snack if you are going to go more than five hours without food.

 

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Annie M.
on 11/3/10 10:55 am - Monument, CO
Hi Molly,
I really needed to read these today. I've been thinking about holiday eating and trying to come up with a reasonable plan. These help.
Thanks with a hug~
Annie

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