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Have you learned to YIELD?

Molly S.
on 8/19/10 3:23 am - Chicago, IL
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Daily Inspiration for August 18, 2010
Katie Jay, MSW

 

Yield.

 

There's a saying that ought to be taught to all driver's education students--the right of way cannot be taken, it can only be given. It really doesn't matter if you had the right of way to that intersection. If the other driver has no intention of yielding, the only thing you'll accomplish by pulling ahead is a dented fender at best and a totaled car and injuries at worst.

 

That's good advice in other areas of life as well. Some people are not well-meaning, and will do everything in their power to draw you into a fight. They may have disagreed with your choice to get WLS. They may want to undermine your efforts to maintain a healthy WLS lifestyle. Whatever their motives, learn to recognize them. And once you do, learn to walk away from any ensuing arguments. They don't want to negotiate; they just want to fight. Taking them up on that will only lead to bruised feelings.

 

Action for the day: Think about the people you encounter on a regular basis who are always trying to draw you into arguments. Begin to develop strategies for avoiding these conflicts, whether by changing the subject or even walking away.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Annie M.
on 8/20/10 8:51 am - Monument, CO
Great reminder. Thanks and have a great weekend~
Molly S.
on 8/20/10 1:40 pm - Chicago, IL
you too!!
Bre K
on 8/29/10 12:30 pm - Stamford, CT
 amen! Needed this today!
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rykar
on 9/7/10 3:33 am
This really hit home today.  Thanks for posting it. 
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