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The Drama Triangle ..

SWEET Tink
on 6/28/09 11:59 am
I wanted to share this with you all .
For years I have been played as the victim . I contribute my weight gain to using food to comfort me from the people who abused me . It was just a couple months ago , I found that I am stronger than many think .. and I can do so much more .
A great friend sent me to the KARPMAN DRAM TRIANGLE
http://www.ta-tutor.com/!dratri/xdrlp.htm

This is a study done showing the terrible triangle that we tend to get ourselves in with our familes and our friends .

Last night I recieved a very upsetting text message . It was sent to me stating it was from my WLS FRIENDS .. I know better .. the things that where in that text only my family could know .. and I stood up to them I told them I loved them , but I was no longer going to take their abuse . If they could not stop , I was going to remove them from my life .. and I will do it ..
I cannot jepordize my health , my weight for their pettiness ..

If you ever feel like you are a victim .. take time to check out this link .. it has been an eye opener for me ..

Tink

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