Do you have a relationship that involves a mental tally book? Do you keep track of what you get? Too many people get caught up in getting and don’t spend enough time thinking about giving. Giving is everything in a relationship. A relationship can only last so long when the people are keeping track of what their partner or friend gives them. Whether you are counting actual gifts, phone calls, emails or something else if you are making decisions in your relationship based on the things you receive, make a decision today to stop. Start giving. If you want your friend to start calling you…start calling them. If you want your husband or wife to let you know how much they appreciate you, tell them first. Chances are they might be keeping a mental tally book as well. In your relationships, talk about the value of giving and receiving…it will make a big difference. |
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