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KimM
on 1/14/09 5:18 am - Imperial, NE
Topic: RE: January Topic
Those are great goals!
How will you break each goal down to manageable mini-goals?
What could you do the first week to help you reach your mini-goal?
How will progress each mini-goal?
Who can you get support from to help you meet your goals?

Please let me know how it is going.

KimM

    
ANewDayforRose
on 1/13/09 1:03 am - NY
Topic: RE: January Topic
Did I have a WOW moment in 2008?  I think the whole year was one of self-discovery with the band.  I found out I get discouraged easily!  I got side tracked early on and lost focus.  I seem to have come back to it...for me the band is a tool to assist with dieting.   I want to lose weight, I want to be more flexible, and less encumbered by my weight. 

So my goals for 2009 are to: 
1) eat 5 veggie/fruits a day
2)  take my vitamins
3)  exercise for 30 minutes a day

In addition, I will continue to work on the emotional eating triggers! 
    
dridlen
on 1/13/09 12:07 am - gillette, WY
Topic: RE: January Topic
Hi Kim, I was glad you posted this I always like to hear wow moments, it is encouraging to me. I had quite a few in 2008. However the highlight was at my parent's 50th anniversary my sister and I hosted. Believe it or not my sister and I used to be called the Crisco sisters, how mean is that? Anyway, there were people at the anniversary that didn't know me because of my weight loss and lots and lots of compliments for both my sis and I. It was an amazing night not only for the amazing fact my parents have been able to share 50 years together but the fact that my sis and I wowed everyone! It was incredible fun! Other wow moments include pulling up to a plus size store and realizing before I went in that everything there was to big for me now, what a feeling as I pulled over to the regular size clothing store! LOL, it was great. When I was back for my parent's anniversary I went to see a close family friend and stood in front of the counter for a good five minutes waiting for him to notice me, only when I said something did he respond. He said..........Dottie, I didn't even recognize you! You look wonderful.

I use goals and rewards all the time in this endeavor. I am currently working on my last 15.5 pounds to goal. I am taking it one week at a time, usually set a mini goal of going to the gym for 4-5 days a week then at the end of the week I get a new piece of smaller clothing. My sis and I have a trip planned for Yellowstone this summer and I want to be toned and fit so I can go on a trail ride, so that is my big goal.
Thanks for posting this thread.

Dottie
Certified Obesity Help Support Group Leader
236 (highest)/228 (at surgery)/136.8(currently)

  
KimM
on 1/12/09 9:24 am - Imperial, NE
Topic: January Topic
Happy New Year!
After looking back over 2008, I've been counting all of my blessings and appreciating how far I've come in my weight loss journey.  I have noticed, however, that even though I am at my goal weight, I have begun to start drinking fluids with my meals again.  I've decided to set a larger goal for 2009 of no longer drinking with my meals.  Then I'll set smaller goals that will help me reach the larger goal.  I'd love it if you'd all join me by answering the following 2 questions.

1.  What is your favorite "Wow" moment from 2008?

2.  What is your Goal (Health-related) for 2009?
    
- are you setting any smaller goals to help you reach your
       larger Goal?


My answer for question # 1 is:  When I got back from my trip to Israel, I was 7 lbs. lighter, and 5 lbs. below my goal weight.  I was wearing my heavy boots, jeans, a belt, and a heavy sweater.  I have not been at this weight in 15 years or more.  I did not even think my body could get down to that weight again, esp. cosidering the 7-8 lbs. of excess skin I'm carrying.  

My answer for question # 2 is:  
Goal:  I will no longer drink fluids during my meals.  I will stop drinking a half hour before my meals, and I will not start drinking fluid again until an hour after my meal.
Mini goal # 1:  I will stop drinking with my meals at home.
Mini goal # 2:  I will stop drinking with my meals everywhere, including restaurants and other people's homes (except for holiday occasions).
Mini goal # 3:
I will stop drinking with my meals everywhere, including restaurants and other people's homes (except for 4 holiday occasions per year).
Mini goal # 4:  I will stop drinking a half an hour before meals and
I will stop drinking with my meals everywhere, including restaurants and other people's homes (except for 4 holiday occasions per year).
Mini goal # 5:  I will stop drinking a half an hour before meals and I will stop drinking with my meals everywhere, including restaurants and other people's homes (except for 4 holiday occasions per year) & I will not drink for half an hour after each meal.

I can't wait to hear your "Wow"moments from 2008 and Goals for 2009.
    
KimM
on 4/14/08 10:01 am, edited 7/12/09 8:00 am - Imperial, NE
Topic: Walking Program
My local support  group  is  starting a walking program on May 1st.  It will last through Aug. 21st.  We will be keeping a log of the distance walked each day (either the number of steps using a pedometer OR the number of blocks).  If you want to participate, just send me your information each week.  We will be calculating the % improvement (not the total distance) for each person based on their first week's average distance.  That way it will be fair for everyone.  Also, the system will tend to reward consistancy (walking 5 or more days a week vs. only 2 or 3).  
At the end of the summer,  we are going to compare our group's average distance improvement with another town's group.  We will have a traveling trophy that will stay with that group until the next summer, when it will go to the winning group.  We will each be buying a T-shirt, which you could get, but it would cost you more, since you would not be able to order in bulk like us.  It will say:

What Do YOU Have To Loose?

                Step Out In Health.

Then there are footprints going around to the back of the shirt.  I think it would cost about $24 for an individual shirt, but it may be less since we are buying in bulk and there is a way for you to order the same shirt one on-line.  I'll have to check that out if anyone is interested

Our group had a Physical Therapist come speak for our last meeting.  He showed us some stretches for the legs and back.  I'm not sure how to show you that using this format, so I would suggest you seek out an exercise professional yourself.  Let them know about your surgery, health problems, and what you have in mind.  Make sure you have checked with your doctor to see if you are healthy enough to start a walking program.  The exercise professional can help you with some appropriate stretches and show you the proper technique.  
Remember to start very slowly, esp. if you are not used to walking.  If you can only walk around the house to begin with, that is fine.  If you can only go a block or two, that's fine.  If you can go several blocks,  that's good too.  Just remember that if you push yourself too hard when you start, you will probably get sore and then either have to wait to heal or end up giving up all together.  If you have not walked for a while, but are in pretty good condition, you'll be tempted to over do it.  You will feel good the first day or two, but then you'll be very sore for a few days.  Try not to fall into this trap.  
Each week, try to increase your distance a little, or the number of days you walk.  Increase gradually.  It may not seem like much, but over the 4 months, it will add up and you'll feel good about your progress.
Walking is good for your cardiovascular health, your mood, and improves your metabolism.  It can help you feel less sluggish and in general, your body will feel better. 
Just another note of caution.  If you walk and have pain in you legs, then rest for a SHORT while and it goes away, and this happens on a regular basis, please see your doctor.  It may indicate a blood flow problem in your legs.  Walking is actually a good way to improve that situation, but you'll probably want to be under the supervision of a P.T., Exercise Physiologist, etc.  
Of course I can't give you all the advice you might need.  So many of us have a lot of health problems to begin with.  Please start out by seeing your local family physician and go from there.  If you have any problemls or questions, please ask your doctor.
I hope you join us on our walking adventure (even if you don't send in your statistics).  I'd like to know how your doing, and remember to find something you enjoy doing this summer to increase your activity level.  You'll feel the benefits from all your hard work.
Have a GREAT Summer.
    
KimM
on 3/7/08 5:51 am - Imperial, NE
Topic: RE: Exercise
Good for you!  If you still have problems with you back, find a Physical Therapists who specializes in Orthopaedics or Manual Therapy if possible (even if you can't, most P.T.'s can help you with back problems).  You will probably need to get a referral by your doctor (so that your insurance will pay for the visit).  Not only can they treat any problems they find, but they can help you get started on an exercise program that is just right for you (your abilities, interests, current equipment like the balance ball, etc.  will be taken into consideration).  Be sure and give them as much information as you can related to your back, your WLS, and your exercise goals.  They will also make sure you are doing your exercises correctly.  If you are not, you can injure yourself.  Also, people don't realize it, but when we are weak in one muscle group, we compensate by using other muscles.  If you continue to do that, the exercise you think you're doing to strengthen an area, will not have the optimal effect.  Good luck, even if you continue on you own.  Just remember to GO SLOW when it comes to intensifying your program.  You might consider including some simple stretches into your program to help you get your flexability back.  When we are overweight, we loose range of motion, and you'll feel better just improving that.   Hope that helps.  Kim
    
christinegl
on 3/6/08 6:10 am - MN
Topic: RE: Exercise

I have back problems that have been flaring up for a few months now and I haven't gone to the gym in awhile.  I bought a balance ball w/DVD and started that last night (harder than it looks!).  I also played a few rounds of bowling and tennis on my Nintendo Wii...that was fun!  I bought that specifically because I heard about the Wii Fit w/Balance board....but then found out it's not sold in the US yet...only Japan :(  

Just a couple more ideas :)

LapBand Placed: 12/5/2006
Port Revision: 6/13/2007                                                                                                          Conversion to Gastric Bypass: 12/16/2009

 

KimM
on 3/5/08 2:21 pm, edited 7/12/09 7:59 am - Imperial, NE
Topic: Exercise

Spring will soon be upon us.  That means more opportunities to exercise outdoors.  
  Now, don't be that way!  You don't have to have a grueling program that you dread doing, eventually quit doing, and then feel guilty about.
Exercise can be fun, and you can (and should) start slowly.  
I'm a licensed Physical Therapist, but these are only general guidelines.  Be sure to check with you doctor before starting any exercise program.  I would encourage you to visit a Physical Therapist or Exercise Physiologist if you need help establishing and modifying a program.  This is also a good idea if you have any injuries or health problems.  These two professionals have been trained not only in exercise and fitness, but also on the medical side of injury, disease, and disfunction.  They also know when to refer you to a specialist or your family doctor when they notice a problem.  Make sure they understand your surgery, health issues and limitations, and most importantly, that they are sympathetic to overweight clients.  If they aren't, find someone else.  Each person has their own areas they like to specialize in and you'll occassionally find someone with a negative attitude toward obese patients.
Here are some general guidelines:
1.  Start slow - begin with general cardiovascular fitness like light aerobics, walking or swimming (any water exercise is great because there is less stress placed on your joints)
2.  If you've not done anything in a long time, try simple things like:
     - make 3 extra trips from one side of your home to the other that 
       you would not normally make (if you stop to get a drink or go to 
       the bathroom, that does not count)
     - progress to trips around the house or to the end of the block
     - slowly add distance (increasing distance only slightly each week or
        two) - remember we don't want to get injured, frustrated or give
        up ... so don't push youself too hard
3.  Enjoy yourself!!!  Get out and garden (watch out for weekend 
     warrior syndrome where you try to do too much because you feel 
     ok, but then you pay for it in sore muscles for several days).  Try 
     playing with the kids or the dog in the back yard.  Go bowling (if 
     you can without injuring yourself).  Do you like to golf?  Rent a 
     cart to begin with or go hit a few practice balls (again, don't over
     do it).
4.  You don't have to go to a gym to lift weights.  Weight lifting
     adds muscle, which will raise your metabolism (that way even when 
     you just sit around, you will burn more calories).  Start with 
     resistance bands or even soup cans.  A P.T. or exercise professional
     can get you started.  A one - time visit won't cost that much, and 
     you'll then have someplace to go if you have questions or problems
     (or if you're ready to progress your program ... and want to do it 
     safely).
I'll post more ideas in the future.  Let me know if you want anything specific to be addressed.

    
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