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Thank you, for your committment.  I have taken a couple of months away Middlesex Hospital Support Group just because of my schedule and the busy holidays.  I should be back there this month.  Look forward to seeing you there.

Carol

Without Goals How will I know I have succeeded?  Guess at it I suppose.    There is always Hind Sight.  That helps us say I woulda, coulda, shoulda.  But it never changes one single thing.

Today I can surrender to success or failure it is my choice.   I can make a WIsh LIst and watch the journey unfold or sit back and pretend it never exsisted.   


The Anatomy of Success or Failure


 Time to Make A New Wish List
I succeeded I did It I reached it 
I can see the end 
Look at what I have done so far
I am struggling
I can do this
Why is this so hard
Today was easy 
Wow I did that
Opps I forgot
I am just tired
Everyone around me is needy
Is it worth it
It is never going to happen
I am excited on the new Journey
I am motivated today 
I started my Wish LIst
                                                               

          

                       

In a couple of hours a new year marks new beginnings and I wish everyone a Happy New Year. Reflections of "09 include WLS (Weight Loss Surgery) anniversaries for some, WLS or commitments to WLS for others, and a determination to continue on our journey of new found health and lifestyle for all.
During 2009 I found a continuing need for ongoing support to assist me on my personal journey. I attend as many meetings as my schedule allows at Middlesex Hospital and can't thank the staff enough for their support and continuing efforts to make those meetings the best they can be. (If you haven't seen the changes in the last nine months.... get to a meeting... a very meaningful transition has taken place.) However, I had the privlege of attending other support group meetings founded by WLS members and immediately discovered the "piece" I was missing. The Long Island Post Ops (LIPO) has a formal meeting once a month, where they share personal concerns, successes, challenges, recipes, nutritional tips, products and occasionally have guest speakers. ( I attended a meeting when a motivational author and speaker shared his wisdom, antedotes and tips)  In addition they organise numerous events during the month that range from dancing to bowling, organized walks, ice skating and family gatherings. I decided THAT is what I needed as ongoing support but commuting to Long Island on an ongoing basis is impractical. (although I wil continue to attend their meetings and events as often as I can.)

Their secret to success is leadership and today the founder of LIPO, Maryellen Ruggiero, graciously  joined our group. I can not match her professionalism, enthusiasm, expertise, or management skills, but I would like  to pattern our group after LIPO. I have requested her to share her thoughts, ideas and guidance as we get this group started on a firm foundation. I will ask her to join our meetings when possible. 

CCCares can succeed with the sharing of time, ideas, suggestions and experiences. I have commitments from Gloria, Chris, and Rich to help us get started. They are each working as i type this to begin the process of bringing us together as a group in January. (keep checking back for details... you go Gloria!)

As I re-read this post I acknowledge and affirm my confession... "Damn, I started this group for me!"  Get involved and make it work for you too! Post pictures of your success, ask a question, start a discussion topic, or share a concern. Commit to CCCares and commit to yourself... you are going through the WLS experience for yourself.... make CCCares yours too.

again Happy New Year!                     Dan

Hi Christine!

I am praying for you and I will continue to do so.This is defiantly a great way to start of the New Year! 

Thanks for being an inspiration!

Just think how good you will look next Christmas.   Someone once told me this surgery will change your life in ways you never imagined.    Good Luck
Gloria