Becks Diet Solution

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Beverley_mcl
on 2/27/10 9:22 pm - Kingston Ontario, Canada
Topic: RE: It's just a number!!
Feb 8   2010 - 271.5
Feb 9   2010 - 266
Feb 10  2010 - 263.5
Feb 11  2010 - 262.5
Feb 12  2010 - 262 1st weigh in day
Feb 13  2010 - 262

Feb 14  2010 - 262
Feb 15  2010 - 263  
Feb 16  2010 - 263
Feb 17  2010 - 262
Feb 18  2010 - 261.5
Feb 19  2010 - 262.5  weigh & Graph day
Feb 20  2010 - 263.5
Feb 21  2010 - 264
Feb 22  2010 - 265 
Feb 23  2010 - 261.5   

Feb 24  2010 - 261  
Feb 25  2010 - 261.5
Feb 26  2010 - 261  W & G day, down1.5 lbs
Feb 27  2010 - 259.5 
Feb 28  2010 - 261
1st time 01/31/2010 - 03/14/2010 lost 13 lbs
2nd time started 03/23/2010 -
Heres what I will do daily to succeed:
Read Advantage Lists  2 xs a day or more if needed
Sit Down, Slow Down, Enjoy Each Bite
Credit myself
Be accountable here daily
Exercise is not an option
Be aware of cravings and desires
Plan meals today for tomorrow
Beverley_mcl
on 2/27/10 9:18 pm - Kingston Ontario, Canada
Topic: RE: Advantages To Losing Weight !!!

Melva, you are so right….. This is hard work and it is worth it. I am so proud of you!!!

The easy way out!! shakes head These people need to ask them selves what is easy about having your insides rearranged, Yes we chose to have the surgery. If we needed surgery to have a heart valve repaired or have a piece of our lunge remove due to smoking we would have to give our consent to have that surgery, is that taking the easy way out? No, these surgery’s are life saving and improve the quality of life. What we did was make a choice to live. I would do it again in a heartbeat. Okay, thats enough of that, this subject makes my blood boil.   LOL

1st time 01/31/2010 - 03/14/2010 lost 13 lbs
2nd time started 03/23/2010 -
Heres what I will do daily to succeed:
Read Advantage Lists  2 xs a day or more if needed
Sit Down, Slow Down, Enjoy Each Bite
Credit myself
Be accountable here daily
Exercise is not an option
Be aware of cravings and desires
Plan meals today for tomorrow
Beverley_mcl
on 2/27/10 8:53 pm - Kingston Ontario, Canada
Topic: RE: Hello Everyone!!!!!

Theresa, Welcome to BDS. The important thing is that you recognise that you have a problem and you need a new start, its never to late.

As you work thought the book you will find that it has all the keys to succeed and reach your goal. Your not alone, we can do this together! Post often, let us know what day you are on.

1st time 01/31/2010 - 03/14/2010 lost 13 lbs
2nd time started 03/23/2010 -
Heres what I will do daily to succeed:
Read Advantage Lists  2 xs a day or more if needed
Sit Down, Slow Down, Enjoy Each Bite
Credit myself
Be accountable here daily
Exercise is not an option
Be aware of cravings and desires
Plan meals today for tomorrow
Beverley_mcl
on 2/27/10 8:41 pm - Kingston Ontario, Canada
Topic: DAY 27

Master the Seven Question Technique

We will use the last 2 days to help with this exercise. Using the sabotaging thoughts and thinking mistakes we have wrote in our diet notebooks we are to  analyze them using the 7 questions she has designed and make Response Cards to help us speak to our sabotaging thoughts.

Read these Response Cards daily and whenever the need arises. 

 Hmmm, just when I think things are getting easier. I almost want to stay here for a day or two BUT I won't. 
"I am just trying to avoid really looking at the truth.  Once I acknowledge the truth, I will not feel comfortable in  justifying and ignoring those sabotaging thoughts and thinking mistakes". I know I will be back here before long though.   Oh well, off to write some response cards.

1st time 01/31/2010 - 03/14/2010 lost 13 lbs
2nd time started 03/23/2010 -
Heres what I will do daily to succeed:
Read Advantage Lists  2 xs a day or more if needed
Sit Down, Slow Down, Enjoy Each Bite
Credit myself
Be accountable here daily
Exercise is not an option
Be aware of cravings and desires
Plan meals today for tomorrow
Theresa M.
on 2/27/10 2:33 pm - Cleveland, TN
Topic: Hello Everyone!!!!!
Hello everyone am new here, and yes I have a problem with wanted to eat when am not even hungry.
 I am five years out and my starting weight was 476lb and my
weight to day is 233lb.  I know I should have already be at my goal,  it's funny I have days when I can only eat what only my stomach can hold.
 I take my vitamins like clock work now its been long time seance I have any protein, so yes I need a new start, and the best I haven't gain any weight back yet, I have been at the same weight for about a year and half.

Theresa
Melva
on 2/27/10 2:07 pm - Gilbert, AZ
Topic: Advantages To Losing Weight !!!
As I go through the BDS, I find myself adding to my advantages daily. I think of Why I started this Weight Loss Journey, there are so many reasons why I not only wanted but I needed to lose the weight. At almost 400#'s I knew if I hadn't taken a drastic step I may not be here today for myself and my family.

I feel  blessed daily, and as I go over my advantage list, I add to it at least 2 advantages, there is so much to live for and to be healthy and happy for. I know some people think I took the easy way out but I don't care it was right for me and they are wrong this is hard, in fact the hardest thing I have ever done and it's something I have to work on for the rest of my life. It's hard but it's worth it.

NO CHOICE ! NO CHOICE ! NO CHOICE ! These are my advantages talking to me .

MELVA
Melva
on 2/26/10 11:05 pm - Gilbert, AZ
Topic: RE: Motivate Yourself Daily
I like that no choice is my choice.
Just what I needed to hear I will carry this with me all day I am doing all of my running around today and I will remember my choice
Melva
Melva
on 2/26/10 11:03 pm - Gilbert, AZ
Topic: RE: DAY 26
That's what I am talking about Recognize and Correct. We can do this as a team supporting each other.
You are strong you can do this " NO CHOICE"

Melva
Beverley_mcl
on 2/26/10 10:33 pm - Kingston Ontario, Canada
Topic: RE: Intro (ETA - just saw there's already an intro thread - sorry!!)

I agree that skipping from day 1 straight to day 4 would not be wise. And I think reading through the whole book before actually starting, might scare the dickens out of me and then  I would probably not start day one at all, but thats just me.

This is a process that may require some to stay on an exercise  for an additional day or 2 or 3, and may even need to go back to certain days to recap what you learned, even Beck has stated this in the book.

I really don’t see any point in just moving on if your not benefiting from it. I personally feel if I was to skip a step just because……. I would be cheating myself, so there for I  try everything she suggests and will keep coming back to it till I get that step right.

Once I have done the full 6 weeks then I will just focus on the days that I still have issues with. I love this program and consider myself to be a lifer.

1st time 01/31/2010 - 03/14/2010 lost 13 lbs
2nd time started 03/23/2010 -
Heres what I will do daily to succeed:
Read Advantage Lists  2 xs a day or more if needed
Sit Down, Slow Down, Enjoy Each Bite
Credit myself
Be accountable here daily
Exercise is not an option
Be aware of cravings and desires
Plan meals today for tomorrow
Beverley_mcl
on 2/26/10 9:36 pm - Kingston Ontario, Canada
Topic: DAY 26

Another thought provoking day

Recognize Thinking Mistakes

Your thoughts are just ideas, not necessarily truths.

A thought can be three fold:
Completely true
Partially true
Completely false

Recognizing and correcting accurate thoughts is an essential skill for succeeding on a diet.

The book gives us 9 common thinking errors, to go with today’s exercise.
More Response Cards to defeat  these thinking errors!!!

1st time 01/31/2010 - 03/14/2010 lost 13 lbs
2nd time started 03/23/2010 -
Heres what I will do daily to succeed:
Read Advantage Lists  2 xs a day or more if needed
Sit Down, Slow Down, Enjoy Each Bite
Credit myself
Be accountable here daily
Exercise is not an option
Be aware of cravings and desires
Plan meals today for tomorrow
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