Consider me RESET

I want to thank those of you that supported me in my post about my son and emotionally eating.  I've come to value even more that power that our BOTT group support is.  

I'm now reset and back on track.  From the replies, I have in my head that I'm not going to turn to emotionally eating to have this situation be more than I am.  Plus, emotionally eating makes the situation worse and truly does nothing positive for me.  It allows me a few minutes of escape but then it is gone.  What stays is that I feel worse emotionally, mentally and physically.  

The situation with my son is the same.  My hubby and I have decisions to make.  My heart is still just broken over the situation.  Now I feel stronger to deal with it.

It is difficult for me to reach out.  I'm a better giver than receiver.  I'm glad that I reached out here.  Instead of emotionally eating for a week, month.....I indulged on Saturday through Wednesday (yesterday).  That's progress from what I've done before.

Thanks for reading (even when I babbled LOL) and your support.  

Fantastic... yea... keep plugging along..

BTW:I had a great dinner with a girlfriend last night... glass of wine, 10 wings (dry rubbed- lemon -pepper- so good); couple of celery sticks- and i was stuffed... the 2.5 hrs with a great friend was priceless... . 

Hang in there.  Once you and your husband put a plan into action, it will help.  The limbo, the not knowing, and the second guessing are the hardest. Do what is best for you, your family, and your son.....in that order.  Take care and remember that we are here for you.  

So glad you're getting back to a better place. Take care of you most of all.

The decisions we have to make as parents sometimes are heartbreaking.  So glad you are taking care of yourself so you can be fully present to do what you need to for your family.  You are a strong women.  Hugs.

Atta girl Cathy!!!