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The Choice Is Each Person's

happylapbander
on 12/13/09 9:54 pm - Fort Walton Beach, FL

I think it is important to get straight whose job is whose.

It is each individual's job to choose how compliant they want to be during the holidays. 

It is our job to support them in accomplishing their choice.

It is their job to realize they forfiet "grumbling rights" if their choice results in a weight with which they are dissatisfied.

It is our job NOT to judge.

It is the job of all of us to care about each other, support each other, and to accept each other.  This isn't a race, this is FOREVER  We are ALL human and with that common bond and BOTT POWER we can each and every one achieve our goal(s). 

Thank you so very very much for doing your job with me!!!!

Lifebeauty
on 12/13/09 10:08 pm
Words well spoken.  I don't endulge in holiday overeating so I don't have compliance issues for myself or anyone else.
However I'm still trying to
conquer weekend overeating, stress overeating, candy eating and pure old bad carbs habits.
    No room for judging in my house.

Z

 With  I will succeed.
HW: 280 - LW: 190 - GW - 180  
Unfilled 8/15/11 - WT:  209
1st Fill 11/29/11 - WT: 215.5 - 3cc
2/20/12 - New Goal - Get n Onederland
2nd Fill 4/26/12 - WT: 224.0 - 3cc
Z

happylapbander
on 12/13/09 10:47 pm - Fort Walton Beach, FL
Nor in any of our houses!!!!! We've all have our "growing edge" 
H.A.L.A B.
on 12/14/09 5:45 am
Being in a maintnace phase - I done it all. Under-ate- over-ate. Ate sweets and paid for that.  dearly.  Drunk wine and got drunk.  
Now - it is just food.  Some is better that other.  but overall - at this point - there are no food for me that I really wish I could eat and can't.  I am at a point now - that I don't crave foods that I can't have.      
I was hoping I get there one day - and I hope that it will last.  If I ever "strayed" I paid for.  

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

Ruth A.
on 12/14/09 6:50 am - Letchworth Garden City, UK
oh so true.  Thank you for the reminder on my job description.

I endevour to do my job to the best of my ability.  I love this post, thank you Happy
   
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