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(deactivated member)
on 11/4/13 3:02 pm

Topic: RE: Wife going to have the bypass

it made me smile. I love sweet marriages :)

yeah,O'm too.

I love sweet marriages and beautiful wedding dresses

(deactivated member)
on 11/4/13 2:58 pm

Topic: RE: Wife going to have the bypass

it made me smile. I love sweet marriages :)

yeah,O'm too.

I love sweet marriages and beautiful wedding dresses

ellenwetry
on 8/21/13 4:02 pm

Topic: RE: PLEASE VOTE FOR ME!!!!

david's bridal,Dress First,JJ's House this three dresses site are the most populor site.

PetHairMagnet
on 6/11/13 9:17 am

RNY on 05/13/13

Topic: RE: Husband and Wife having WLS

My husband had his in Oct of last year, mine was May of this year. Same surgeon, same procedure. Two different hospitals though.

HW333--SW 289--GW of 160 5' 11" woman. I only know the way I know & when you ask for input/advice, you'll get the way I've been successful through my surgeon & nutritionist. Please consult your surgeon & nutritionist for how to do it their way. Biggest regret? Not doing this 10 years ago! Every day is better than the day before...and it was a pretty great day!

PetHairMagnet
on 5/22/13 1:23 pm

RNY on 05/13/13

Topic: RE: doing it together

Yes, my husband was 7 months before mine and I am glad he was first, as it made him truly understand what I just went through. The doctor told us he would lose more and faster, so I was mentally prepped for that. Plus, I get the benefit of the new and even sexier version of him!

PetHairMagnet
on 5/22/13 1:19 pm, edited 6/11/13 9:19 am

RNY on 05/13/13

Topic: RE: Sharing weight with spouse

He weighs weekly and tells me every week. I am still daily and tell him daily. It is encouraging for us to share our progress!!

PetHairMagnet
on 5/22/13 1:16 pm

RNY on 05/13/13

Topic: RE: Any positive stories about WLS inhancing a marriage

My husband is 8 months post op **** lbs) and I find him even more attractive. He has been very vocal about how positive my changes are (56 lbs total since Jan) and we feel closer having this shared success in our marriage.

jewel-twin
on 12/6/12 9:02 am - Canada

Topic: RE: hubby slipping

I think its not helpful to be the food police! I think you should bring his attention to it! Perhaps suggest that if he is interested he might want to consider some therapy ....

But if you try to control it..it will get worse for both of you!!!

You can only control yourself! If you have issues with tit for tat with him...you need to find a way to work on that so you don't fall into that pit fall!!

Being the wife is sometimes difficult..we often feel like we succeed and fail as a unit rather then as an individual...but with WLS..its completely individual!!

Good luck!!

Family Dr. 06/05/2012    Referral Received 06/28/2012 Orientation 08/01/2012   NP 08/27/2012
SW 08/28/2012              Nut Class 08/27/2012
NUT 10/01/2012              PS 10/01/2012
Surgeon Dr. Cyriac 12/07/2012 **SURGERY JAN 30, 2013**