This may a bit premature ..
on 10/1/13 1:04 pm, edited 10/1/13 1:17 pm
But I can very cautiously say ... I may be keeping the house I love .. and getting long overdue spousal support ( my top one percent earning did not share ONE CENT of family income with me throughout our marriage despite my having to give up MY renumerative work to pursue our mortgage , because of son's persitent thefts of my clients samples I have to wear home .. and because I had to renovate and add value to our home for years , ( now still rescontructing a full year after Sandy ) .
My husband was actually dumb enough to proudly volunteer this crucial tidbit of information ON THE STAND ... the judge promptly ordered him to pay 2,000 a month just for my rent ..
( since my stepson's violence and my husbands refusal to do anything abut it has kicked me out of the original marital home )
THANK GOD !! ( I just pray I'm right ) ( here's a LOT of corruption in these courts and he hired a clever and totally unscruplous lawyer who will do ANYTHING to win unfortunately ) I've had to change lawyers quite a few times because the otherofferings on Long Island are both totally DUMB INCOMPETENT or simply unethically UNCARING and unwilling to devote their time to purseue their clients best interest ( or to keep their own promises made in the initial interview ) of writing and bringing motions etc. I;ve basically been forced to act as my own lawyer mostly .. and I'm truly amazed that I'm holding my own against this ruthless , well paid , connected and highly trained very smart "liar" ... I just pray I can keep it up ..
Wishing you all the best and sending you vibes of strength and shrewdness.
--gina
5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
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HW-218/SW-208/CW-126/ Lowest Weight-121/Goal-125 - hit 8/23/09/Height-5'3"
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on 10/4/13 9:28 pm
Thanks for the much-needed support guys . Turns out horrible stepson broke my rib when he threw me down on the floor grrr...
so I'm in a lot o f pain . A hurricane is coming ( predictably ) just when i'm supposed to pour the new footings to support the collapsing waterfront outbuilding . 
Aren't life's never-ending challenges FUN lol ?
