Frusrated
That is exactly why I didnt tell my family. I also have a sister that thinks the world revolves around her and is only nice to people when she wants or needs something. That being said she is also someone who has always been a size 6 even after 4 kids. She eats dessert first kind of person. She just doesnt gain weight and she thinks everyone should be like her and doesnt understand how anyone can be over weight. The last thing I need is her in my ear. She is also an RN and thinks she knows everything there is to know about anything medical. So I kept everything between dh and my kids. My family thinks my surgery was to repair a hernia.
I feel the same way. My sister use to be my best friend, or I thought she was. It is sad, but I have decided it is better not to have those people constantly in my life if all they are gonna do is bring me down. I have been much happier and a lot less drama in my life since i distanced myself. I also realized that I was her best friend but she was not even close to being mine. I dont know your sister, but mine was just using me most of the time. I started realizing she only wanted to be nice and be around if it benefited her.I went through a tough time in my marriage a few years ago and that is when I realized who my true friend are and my sister was not one of them....