Repost of the Lightweight Creed Nov 3, 2012

MajorMom
on 11/2/12 6:52 pm - VA

The Lightweight Creed
(Created and approved by members of the OH Lightweights Forum, Jan 2008)


I am a Lightweight. I am only one of many others like me. Together, we are a team. Though our journeys and choices may be different, we are bonded together by the commonality of being Lightweights and the strategies, successes and struggles that entails. It is this bond that defines this board.

I began my journey with a BMI of less than 45 and/or with less than 150 lbs excess weight. My lower BMI and excess weight does in no way make me less deserving of medical intervention, and I should not be made to feel inferior or guilty.

I qualified for WLS because I have co-morbidities, or because my medical history proves that my weight is diet and exercise resistant.

I have worked with my healthcare team to determine the best surgical option for me. I am confident that others have done so as well, so I will refrain from passing judgments. 

I will freely share the most accurate information I have, as well as my own personal journey and why I chose my surgery in an informative, educational and respectful way so that others may learn from my experiences. 

I respect the decisions of my fellow Lightweights, regardless of the surgery they chose and the nutritional/exercise plans they follow.

I will always promote health and a healthy lifestyle, whether physical or mental; and will respect alternate methods and views toward achieving good health, even if I do not espouse them personally.

I will always be sensitive, honest and respectful when contributing to discussions on this board and in my PMs. I will never flame, demean, invalidate or harass others for their questions or decisions. I will remember, at all times, the difficulties and pain I went through on my own journey and be considerate of others when discussing theirs.

I will always defend and unite with my fellow Lightweights against prejudice and hostility. 

I understand it is my responsibility to report offensive conduct to my fellow Lightweights, so that we may deal with offending parties as a united front to preserve the supportive and tolerant atmosphere of our board.

I understand that if my conduct becomes offensive, I will not be welcome to participate on this board any longer.

 

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
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UBi FIT
on 11/2/12 8:48 pm
VSG on 08/06/12

Thank you! My BMI was 34. When I started on OH. I ha many comments about my low weight. One person Rehob or something like that was very nasty to me. And I saw another post the other day about judging a person because they didn't feel 40-or so pounds was deserving of medical attention. I'm so glad you guys found me in that side and told me to come here. Other wise I would not have any support! You guys are great and thank you! Thank you for welcoming me and neverjudging me. I still have the same struggles as someone with 100 plus pounds to lose. I hit my 30 pound mark today! 20 more to go! Thank you again for all the support from lightweights!

      

Dr. Goal 137-140 my goal 130. Fantasy goal 125

Lindah55
on 11/3/12 12:16 am - OR
RNY on 10/09/12

Thank you for posting the creed.

Candy V.
on 11/3/12 12:55 am - MI
RNY on 09/12/12

like!

 RNY 9/12    TT 9/13    HT 5' 4"   HW 250    SW 242   CW 125

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