Repost of the Lightweight Creed Sept 15, 2012

MajorMom
on 9/15/12 2:12 am - VA
The Lightweight Creed
(Created and approved by members of the OH Lightweights Forum, Jan 2008)


I am a Lightweight. I am only one of many others like me. Together, we are a team. Though our journeys and choices may be different, we are bonded together by the commonality of being Lightweights and the strategies, successes and struggles that entails. It is this bond that defines this board.

I began my journey with a BMI of less than 45 and/or with less than 150 lbs excess weight. My lower BMI and excess weight does in no way make me less deserving of medical intervention, and I should not be made to feel inferior or guilty.

I qualified for WLS because I have co-morbidities, or because my medical history proves that my weight is diet and exercise resistant.

I have worked with my healthcare team to determine the best surgical option for me. I am confident that others have done so as well, so I will refrain from passing judgments. 

I will freely share the most accurate information I have, as well as my own personal journey and why I chose my surgery in an informative, educational and respectful way so that others may learn from my experiences. 

I respect the decisions of my fellow Lightweights, regardless of the surgery they chose and the nutritional/exercise plans they follow.

I will always promote health and a healthy lifestyle, whether physical or mental; and will respect alternate methods and views toward achieving good health, even if I do not espouse them personally.

I will always be sensitive, honest and respectful when contributing to discussions on this board and in my PMs. I will never flame, demean, invalidate or harass others for their questions or decisions. I will remember, at all times, the difficulties and pain I went through on my own journey and be considerate of others when discussing theirs.

I will always defend and unite with my fellow Lightweights against prejudice and hostility. 

I understand it is my responsibility to report offensive conduct to my fellow Lightweights, so that we may deal with offending parties as a united front to preserve the supportive and tolerant atmosphere of our board.

I understand that if my conduct becomes offensive, I will not be welcome to participate on this board any longer.

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
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DS on Aug 9, 2007 with Dr. Hazem Elariny

Huneypie
on 9/15/12 4:02 am - London, United Kingdom
DS on 07/24/12
Tell it Gina!!

Lowish BMI? See Lightweights Board! Lightweight Creed For more on DS see www.DSfacts.com
If you don't have peace, it isn't because someone took it from you; you gave it away. You cannot always control what happens to you, but you can control what happens in you John C Maxwell 
View more of my photos at ObesityHelp.comSleeve 2010 Dr López Corvala, Mexico. DS 2012 Dr Himpens, Belgium

I  my DS  

gaiamist
on 9/15/12 4:25 pm - Windsor, Canada
Well put!
Ref June/10; Dr.Treki Jan/11; Orient Jan/2011; SW Mar/11; hiatus Apr-Oct/11; Dietician class Nov/11; SW Nov/12; Dr.Treki Dec/11; psych Jan/12; Dietician Feb/12; SW Mar/12; Surg Ed class May/12; surgeon Aug 24/12 - agreed to refer file to Hamilton for DS               
dgill1
on 9/16/12 6:48 am
VSG on 07/24/12
Thank you for sharing this!,,
dasie
on 9/17/12 8:50 am
I am so appreciative of those on this forum.




    
lighteningbug34
on 9/18/12 9:42 am
RNY on 08/27/12
Love it!!!

      

Pre-Op: 245Day of Surgery -  238.2 / Current: 170Initial goal - 140 / Ultimate Goal- 130

Barbi468
on 9/21/12 8:03 am - PA
RNY on 08/06/12
You know this says it well. I am so tired of defending myself with why I got RNY when I am "not that big" and here I am 6 wks post op and just yesterday I had o explain why I had it done and hearing how, "you didn't really need that surgery" and "I told you that you would be sick" since I said I was nauseous one or two times. Which isn't bad at all.
One of these days, I am going to snap on someone. These ppl claim to care, but they didn't seem so worried when I was suffering from sleep apnea and acid reflux and unexplained swelling in my legs and arms, among other health related problems.
JS

I might print this out and start handing it out instead of explain myself.

        

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