OT-worst week of my life

My heart goes out to you! It appears that you have a good handle on things though... you'll be ok, I just know it! Hang in there girl!  (((hugs))))

Tonya,  I am sorry you are having to go through this, but it sounds like you are doing exactly what you need to do for yourself!!  I can't imagine the stress you are under now. 
Maybe going for a walk or something like that will help you since you can't eat for comfort now.
Hope you have a great visit with your DD and new grandson.
I'll be thinking about you.
Linda

Tonya, I'm so sorry this happened! There are lots of (((Hugs))) coming from us LW's! I'm glad you have a support system and remember that those of us here are here for you too!  Keep your protein close and try to use it as much as possible. Make a note for your car...no ice cream - no chocolate and no drive throughs. It's not worth it!!! Having WLS was something you did for you...don't let his actions take that away from you! Stay strong and your head held high! 

~gwen

Tonya
You've taken quite a step for your self and it was the best thing you could do.  Just take one day at a time and know that you have a great support group here.
Take Care

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Hugs .

So sorry you are going through this! Divorce is always a hard thing to go through. Start looking towards the future. You deserve to be happy and treated well.

I'm so proud of you! The best course of actions for ourselves aren't always the easiest. 

It sounds like you have worked really hard to make your marriage work, but you also have the self esteem to know when enough is enough.  I'm sorry that you've been through this.  I can only imagine all the feelings you are having.  

Looks like you have a strong support system in place and you have us!  Hang in there!

{{Big Hug}}

Kay

Good Morning Tonya,

                               ((((((Hugs))))) girl you need and deserve them!!  So sorry to hear you are going through this right now!!  Nothing could have prepared you for this betrayal....You have taken the bull by the horns and doing what you have to....It is such a lucky thing that your builder was so understanding...God Bless him!!  Hang in there Girl,  You will get through this and who knows what lies ahead....Run with it!!!!

                                            Sincerely,

Oh Tonya...I just read your message. I don't know how I skipped it before!  I'm sorry you are going through this!  It sounds like you are a very strong woman to be able to cope with all of this.

DD#2 husband was addicted to sex and other things like gambling and over the years things got worse and worse for her.  He started to get violent and  It's terrible for your self-esteem. 

I'm so glad you have chosen to get out now!  There really isn't anything you can do to change him!!  You have to look out for yourself!!!!!

 
It's good after a bombshell like this that you're going to stay with your DD and a new grandson is just what you need right now!  Keeping busy is the key, and you sound like you are totally on top of things, which I give you a lot of credit for; not everyone is that strong.  I'm sorry you are having to go through this again.  I'm glad to hear that you have taken steps towards separating yourself already. Civil separations are helpful, that's one less thing you have to stress over.

Good luck with everything, and feel free to vent whenever you feel the need.  I'm sure there are a lot of us on here who have dealt with unfaithful spouses and know where you're coming from and what you're going through.  

Take care of you, your DD and that new grandson!!!!