Good Morning. I don't know what to think about this one...

MajorMom
on 10/13/11 8:11 pm - VA

So, DH comes home yesterday afternoon and says, "I saw my program manager today and he told me I need to tell you to put some meat on your bones". {blink, blink} What?! Good grief, I haven't changed weight in 2 years. Maybe it was the black dress pants and tucked-in shirt I was wearing yesterday. I saw the program manager before he left for the building where my DH works...maybe that was it...just a quick impression...

But, dang! lol

Y'all have a great Friday!

--gina

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
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Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish?
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Price S.
on 10/13/11 8:41 pm - Mills River, NC

RNY on 09/09/10

I've started getting the "don't lose anymore" stuff and honestly, looking in the mirror naked is really scarey. But, I still like how I look in clothes. And I really hope after this knee thing, I can get to work adding muscle under all this lose skin.

All day manditory meeting today. Yuck. Think I will take my knitting.

66 yrs young, 4'11" hw 220, goal 120 met at 12 months, cw 129 learning Maintainance

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southernlady5464
on 10/13/11 9:05 pm

DS on 01/24/11

I realize that the project manager was concerned and didn't mean it in a mean way but WHO THE HECK appointed him the arbitrator of how much you should weigh!!!!

Gina, I would not worry a bit...altho maybe wearing BLACK isn't such a great idea at our weight. Yes, I am including me as I realized this morning just how skinny I was getting. I still have a middle but I am wearing a size 4 easily and a small top this morning.

Liz

teachmid
on 10/13/11 9:12 pm - OKC, OK

Revision on 12/15/10

. Mmmm. Bet you never thought you'd get a comment like that.

-Gail-
SW 257 CW 169 GW 165

AnneGG
on 10/13/11 11:24 pm

RNY on 07/15/10

No business of his whatsoever!!! Enjoy your size- you have worked hard for it! It feels so good to be small1

"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls the butterfly." Richard Bach

"Support fosters your growth. If you are getting enough of the right support, you will experience a major transformation in yourself. You will discover a sense of empowerment and peace you have never before experienced. You will come to believe you can overcome your challenges and find some joy in this world." Katie Jay

italianspice
on 10/13/11 11:29 pm - Eastlake, OH

RNY on 07/29/10

You must have been looking svelte my dear!

I just dont understand why people feel a need to share their opinions about another person's weight. I would never say, oh you look like your going bald? Or those wrinkles around your eyes?
I would never say you look like your gaining weight? So why do people feel they need to comment when we lose weight?

Just a thought.

~Maria

seaview
on 10/13/11 11:47 pm

VSG on 04/08/10

OMG I love these now...
My best friend told me if I lose any more weight I'll have to be "HOSPITALIZED" I weigh 140 and am 5'8"....HAHAHHAAH
Can you say "frenemy"?
If some man is commenting on your bones that's hot!
SEAVIEW

lerkhart
on 10/14/11 1:04 am

RNY on 08/03/09

People get so used to seeing us one way that I think when they finally really SEE us another way it is such a shock to them.

I bet with black on and your shirt tucked in you looked great and it was probably just a shock to him. I would take it as a compliment that he even noticed - I think a lot of men don't even pay attention to what other women look like unless they are in bikinis and spilling out of the top of them-LOL!!

I have noticed that my face looks like it has more wrinkles in it, but I'm not planning on trying to gain any weight because I'm hoping for redistribution at some point....

Linda

14.5 lost pre-surgery 5'1 1/2"

melizabeth
on 10/14/11 1:40 am - CA

RNY on 09/20/11

Gina,
Don't you just hate those kind of comments? NOT! I can't wait until someone thinks I need to put a little more meat on my bones. So he was checkin' you out eh? Cool!

Elizabeth

Melizabeth

RYN 9/20/11--HW 211--CW120--Extended TT 3/7/13

GOAL Weight 120 met 18 months post op