My husband just left and I don't know if he's coming back
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on 9/13/11 11:14 pm
on 9/13/11 11:14 pm
((((((()))))))))) huge hugs Sweetheart .
I think we take a lot when we are "in the food " and just serotonin ourselves upjust because we're in pain and craving relief .
Not all men are good with illness .. and the ones that are may not act right when their significant other is feeling WELL .
There are so many emotional rollercoasters after WLS when we discover in so many ways that the lives we settled into are not necessarily the only ones we can have and we start feeling we DESERVE more out of life .. Changes are hard !
But I STILL say its all TOTALLY worth it ...
I think we take a lot when we are "in the food " and just serotonin ourselves upjust because we're in pain and craving relief .
Not all men are good with illness .. and the ones that are may not act right when their significant other is feeling WELL .
There are so many emotional rollercoasters after WLS when we discover in so many ways that the lives we settled into are not necessarily the only ones we can have and we start feeling we DESERVE more out of life .. Changes are hard !
But I STILL say its all TOTALLY worth it ...
Please take care of yourself and keep yourself and your son safe.
He is probably worried about you and how your weight loss is going to affect your relationship.
Hope things work out for you because you have surely been through alot since your surgery.
{{{{Hugs}}}}
Linda
He is probably worried about you and how your weight loss is going to affect your relationship.
Hope things work out for you because you have surely been through alot since your surgery.
{{{{Hugs}}}}
Linda
14.5 lost pre-surgery 5'1 1/2" 
Hugs, Julie!!! Let us know how you are doing today.
I know from your posts there has been a lot of stress around your recovery. You take care and be safe. Get an emergency plan in place in case you need one.
Google choices for dom violence for info. My girlfriend works there. Great info.
Meg
I know from your posts there has been a lot of stress around your recovery. You take care and be safe. Get an emergency plan in place in case you need one.
Google choices for dom violence for info. My girlfriend works there. Great info.
Meg
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HW 236 / SW 224 / CW 164/ GW 135
HW 236 / SW 224 / CW 164/ GW 135
I'm not sensitive kind of guy, but I'll try to give some insight into the male mentality without being too harsh.
First of all I'd like to state that men do not think like women, or do we express our emotions the same way. There could be a number of things wrong with him
and/ or things that are bothering him. You will never find out what his problem is until he figures it out.
Second thing is, make sure you are safe. As a former law enforcement officer, I have seen first hand what can happen. Don't let yourself become a victim.
At the end of my first marriage I was a total butt to my ex. She had done nothing to deserve treatment that I gave her. The short answer is that I didn't want to be married to her anymore and I wanted it to be her fault. It only took me about four years to figure out my behavior.
Please take care of yourself and know that it's most likely nothing that you have done and you'll figure out what's up when he figures it out.
First of all I'd like to state that men do not think like women, or do we express our emotions the same way. There could be a number of things wrong with him
and/ or things that are bothering him. You will never find out what his problem is until he figures it out.
Second thing is, make sure you are safe. As a former law enforcement officer, I have seen first hand what can happen. Don't let yourself become a victim.
At the end of my first marriage I was a total butt to my ex. She had done nothing to deserve treatment that I gave her. The short answer is that I didn't want to be married to her anymore and I wanted it to be her fault. It only took me about four years to figure out my behavior.
Please take care of yourself and know that it's most likely nothing that you have done and you'll figure out what's up when he figures it out.
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