(((HUGS))). I also like the phrase:
"The best way I can punish a guy is to take my focus away."
You go girl! A fight is in order! Just dont let him steal your joy and keep focused on taking care of yourself throughout this ordeal! Good luck and with the driving too!
~Maria
SW 230 Preop 205 GW 130 LW 131 CW 135 Ht 5'1"