Where's Rosa? Living her new life of intrigue...

punchynerd
on 1/14/11 2:05 pm - New York, NY
Aw, thanks, Price!  Safety is KEY.
5'4 CW: 130, GW: 130
Springtime Challenge to reach goal of 130 in spring MET!!!

  
newdirectionhome
on 1/14/11 8:53 am
 Congratulations on your adventures. I read a statistic that something like 30% of relationships now start online. My friend's grandson is a University of Chicago graduate, fabulous job, and now married to someone he met on line. Someday young people will say in disgust, "you met him in a bar?".

You are so lovely and radiate warmth in your photo and posts. You go get what you want and need. Be confident you are the gift and anyone with you is lucky.

Tell or not to tell is personal. I want to share everything once I trust a person. You know your own comfort zone. 
 Wendy
5'3" SW: 210
punchynerd
on 1/14/11 2:08 pm - New York, NY
Thank you so much, Wendy! 

There's something to be said for online dating.  I mean, the alternatives, like meeting in a bar, aren't necessarily more safe at this point.  My favorite is through friends, who have references.  But most of my friends around here are single - so they're not passing any guys along! :)
5'4 CW: 130, GW: 130
Springtime Challenge to reach goal of 130 in spring MET!!!

  
peyton88
on 1/14/11 9:33 am - Madison, GA
How fun!!!!  My best friend who is recently divorced just signed up for Match.com and has more men than she can handle....she's having the time of her life, sounds like you are too!!

Keep the juicy details coming....especially for us old married folks!!!
  HW/SW/CW/Goal.....219  / 206 /  122 / 130

  
punchynerd
on 1/14/11 2:09 pm - New York, NY
You're funny, Peyton.  I will!  I'll keep the details coming.  :)
5'4 CW: 130, GW: 130
Springtime Challenge to reach goal of 130 in spring MET!!!

  
lerkhart
on 1/14/11 11:16 am
Rosa, we have missed you.  I hope you enjoy your dating and seeing the city!!  That's a great idea.  I bet any of these guys would be really lucky to get you so don't even think about settling for anything less than exactly what you want.  You deserve it.
Keep posting dating info for us that us old married people can live through you!!
Linda
14.5 lost pre-surgery  5'1 1/2"                                      LW-Apple-Gold-Small.jpg image by PlicketyCat
punchynerd
on 1/14/11 2:10 pm - New York, NY
Married:  yes.  Old:  NO!

But yes, I think I can do this.  We can have a dating digest every now and then...
5'4 CW: 130, GW: 130
Springtime Challenge to reach goal of 130 in spring MET!!!

  
Mrs.M
on 1/14/11 10:04 pm
Rosa,
Congrats on finally having fun in the dating world.  I tried it too (before surgery).  Lots of duds but it helped me get over thinking I wasn't date worthy!  Also, try more sites if you find more creeps than keepers.  I did that and then met my husband online 4 years ago.

Love the tip about going to new places on a date.  Wish I had heard it before i got married!LOL
Janet
        
Boscogirl
on 1/15/11 6:43 am - TX
I think we need atleast a weekly report!
                                  Goal in EIGHT months!
 
         Highest/Surgery Weight 248 Goal Weight 165 Current Weight 165-175
                           Starting BMI 33.7 Current BMI 22.1
             I'm 42 years young, my height is 6' and I've had no plastics!
                                          I  my sleeve!!!
italianspice
on 1/15/11 7:20 am - Eastlake, OH
Glad to hear you are having a great time!
So sorry that the fat girl mentality is still holding on. I know I feel the same way. I think our brains and our attitudes need time to change and catch up with our bodies.
As for any new relationship or friendship, you do not reveal all of your self in a short time. These things take time.
Enjoy! You are truly beautiful inside and out, and I am sure that it wont be long before some lucky fella figures that out!

~Maria

SW 230 Preop 205 GW 130 LW 131 CW 135 Ht 5'1"

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