OMG my surgery is in 4days
I can understand the anxiety having already been down this road once. But I can tell you that RNY was the best decision I have ever made. Restriction is wonderful and following the plan from surgery back to food gets you started in the right way. You will do fine, both of you, I'm sure. Congrats on your decisions.
66 yrs young, 4'11" hw 220, goal 120 met at 12 months, cw 129 learning Maintainance
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Good luck you will love your RNY. I do~ best decision I ever made for me and my health. Don't do too much nesting. I did and had an allergic reaction to dust and my surgery had to be post poned due to having to have steriods. Baby yourself a little and read alot. Knowledge is power. Hugs and best wishes to a speedy recovery.