Repost of the Lightweight Creed - Oct 8, 2010

MajorMom
on 10/7/10 8:43 pm - VA
The Lightweight Creed
(Created and approved by members of the OH Lightweights Forum, Jan 2008)


I am a Lightweight. I am only one of many others like me. Together, we are a team. Though our journeys and choices may be different, we are bonded together by the commonality of being Lightweights and the strategies, successes and struggles that entails. It is this bond that defines this board.

I began my journey with a BMI of less than 45 and/or with less than 150 lbs excess weight. My lower BMI and excess weight does in no way make me less deserving of medical intervention, and I should not be made to feel inferior or guilty.

I qualified for WLS because I have co-morbidities, or because my medical history proves that my weight is diet and exercise resistant.

I have worked with my healthcare team to determine the best surgical option for me. I am confident that others have done so as well, so I will refrain from passing judgments. 

I will freely share the most accurate information I have, as well as my own personal journey and why I chose my surgery in an informative, educational and respectful way so that others may learn from my experiences. 

I respect the decisions of my fellow Lightweights, regardless of the surgery they chose and the nutritional/exercise plans they follow.

I will always promote health and a healthy lifestyle, whether physical or mental; and will respect alternate methods and views toward achieving good health, even if I do not espouse them personally.

I will always be sensitive, honest and respectful when contributing to discussions on this board and in my PMs. I will never flame, demean, invalidate or harass others for their questions or decisions. I will remember, at all times, the difficulties and pain I went through on my own journey and be considerate of others when discussing theirs.

I will always defend and unite with my fellow Lightweights against prejudice and hostility. 

I understand it is my responsibility to report offensive conduct to my fellow Lightweights, so that we may deal with offending parties as a united front to preserve the supportive and tolerant atmosphere of our board.

I understand that if my conduct becomes offensive, I will not be welcome to participate on this board any longer.

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
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DS on Aug 9, 2007 with Dr. Hazem Elariny

Shannon D.
on 10/7/10 10:27 pm
I always re-read this when you post it. It made me feel so good when I was pre-op and had to listen to all the "you don't need surgery" comments.
   
  5'0"   HW-214   SW-186  GW-115  CW-96-99 
  LW-Apple-Gold-Small.jpg image by PlicketyCat
    
Generic User_Name
on 10/7/10 11:01 pm
Gina,

Why don't they make this post a "sticky"?


MajorMom
on 10/7/10 11:17 pm - VA
ObesityHelp management refused. We even had our moderator, Kathy, go to bat for us. Nope, they won't do it for us. So, other boards that have les****s than the LW board gets stickies but we can't have one.

How's Liz doing?

--gina

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
Join us on the
Lightweights Board!
DS on Aug 9, 2007 with Dr. Hazem Elariny

Jody ***
on 10/7/10 11:28 pm - Brighton, MI
RNY on 10/21/08 with
What's a "sticky"??

HW-218/SW-208/CW-126/ Lowest Weight-121/Goal-125 - hit 8/23/09/Height-5'3"

Regain 30 lbs from 2012 to 2016 - got back on track and lost it.  Took 8 months. 
90+/- pounds lost      
BMI - 24 or so
Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
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MajorMom
on 10/7/10 11:30 pm - VA
It's a permanent post that "sticks" at the top of the board posts.

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
Join us on the
Lightweights Board!
DS on Aug 9, 2007 with Dr. Hazem Elariny

Generic User_Name
on 10/7/10 11:30 pm
Liz is doing much better today. She is starting to wean herself off the Lortab. Thank you for asking.

ObesityHelp management needs to do a Cranial Rectal Extraction with regards to making this a sticky post.

You can quote me on that as well!!!!!!!!!!!


MajorMom
on 10/7/10 11:38 pm - VA
lol  I'll keep that in mind.

Glad Liz is working through the recovery process. I hope she's 100% soon.

5'1" -- HW 195/SW 187/GW 115 July 08/CW 121 Dec 2012
                                 ******GOAL*******

Starting BMI between 35 and 40ish? 
Join us on the
Lightweights Board!
DS on Aug 9, 2007 with Dr. Hazem Elariny

punchynerd
on 10/8/10 11:40 am - New York, NY
a "Cranial Rectal Extraction"???

That's brilliant!  I'm definitely stealing that one...


5'4 CW: 130, GW: 130
Springtime Challenge to reach goal of 130 in spring MET!!!

  
Nita G.
on 10/9/10 11:40 am
 I'm glad you posted this, I always wondered what the criterion was for being a 'light weight'. Starting at 282 pounds, I didn't think I fell into that category, but since I began my journey with a BMI of less than 45 and/or with less than 150 lbs excess weigh, I guess I am. So now I'll have to spend some time here, as well as the VSG and California boards. Thanks!
Nita

48 pounds lost prior to surgery
        
 

    
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